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    Posted: Jan 16 2014 at 8:28am
Aww. Poor Babies. I can see both sides though. I have a family member just a trifling as this girl. She has 5 kids and will leave them jokas at home alone with no food and don't give a fk. 1 is special needs but ask her if she cares! We were helping her by watching all her kids while she worked and financially but she took advantage of us. I feel bad because at least this girl (from the article) was trying to do the right thing by working. My family would of helped her as long as she's trying to help herself.
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Originally posted by BBpants BBpants wrote:

So sad....I couldn't imagine leaving my child in the car for two mins alone...She didn't check up on them at all during her breaks??????
This is a sub from an article written last year.  Says she only checked on them once.

"But prosecutors say she left the two children in a hot car for seven hours May 26 when she went to work at a hotel in Henrico, only checking on them once, and she didn’t notice they needed medical help until after she had driven all the way back home. Twenty-month-old Jelani A. Downing-Batson was pronounced dead that same day and 2-month-old Jade Downing died four days later in the hospital."
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So sad....I couldn't imagine leaving my child in the car for two mins alone...She didn't check up on them at all during her breaks??????
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Originally posted by f8dagrate f8dagrate wrote:

Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

This is disturbing .
I am sympathetic.

She was probably so afraid of getting fired and probably felt so alone.
No excuse but I damn.

She killed her babies yes.
This whole situation is terrible.

After we tell them to close their legs there has to be a better support system for the ones that don't.


They don't have to close their legs, use condoms. I'm so glad I have my family as a support system. This young lady may have had ptsd?


I'm just saying even if you use to use that message there has to be a back up plan
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she wasn't worried about someone stealing the kids? Especially with them being so young. 20 months is still a baby to me and people love to steal babies.

I feel for all parties involved. I think it was  negligent and dangerous for her leave the kids unattended . I don't know what her punishment should be though.


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I wonder if her health issuses contributed to her lack of good judgement ? My parents never really discuss sex with me as a teen except for pregnancy warnings . Thank God i waited until after the age of 18 after i found out how to protect myself the first time . The girl will suffer no matter what happens for the rest of her life . Poor babies .

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Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

Originally posted by femmemichelle femmemichelle wrote:

Originally posted by sugabanana sugabanana wrote:

Originally posted by Printer_Ink Printer_Ink wrote:

I don't feel a bit sorry for her.

Obviously her family situation is bad if she could not count on family to babysit while she went to work.

Another example of irresponsible sex if she got knocked up with 2 babies at her age ... where she knew did could not provide for them so she would end up leaving them in odd places ALONE instead of hiring help.

Should have had responsible sex and not gotten knocked up at all or had an abortion within the first month or two when the baby was the size of a pea.

Instead she brought those 2 innocents lives into the world (who knows what else they suffered at her hands) just so that they could die a horrible death like that.

Fry her.


I don't understand when people talk like this. Your observation is already after the fact that she had the kids. She probably had a good job before having the kids and lost it after the kids were born. YES she is wrong for leaving the innocent babies in the car but how can you chastise and say she should've had protected sex knowing the article states the kids are 20 months and 3 months already here in the world.


Bruh responses and opinions like this are the reason why the world is going to sh*t. I'm thoroughly tired of people coddling women who make the MISTAKE of having kids they can't afford or duly provide for. Maybe if she had been told to keep her legs closed until she could provide for her kids in a fashion that would not have resulted in their painful deaths, one life could have been spared. This woman killed her kids. They already started off at an immediate disadvantage with no father in the picture because of mama's actions but now they're dead -_-.

agreed.

im not against being a single parent or a poor parent, but i'm way against being an unprepared parent.  life happens but she was 23 with a 2 yr old and an infant.  she shouldn't have put herself in that position.  she knew what she was walking into and i refuse to believe otherwise.  it's not that hard to avoid fcked up situations.  she went to college, so we can't play the uneducated card.  I could've had children by now but i'm a realist and realistically it would not work yet.  why is this concept so hard for people?  now two kids are dead, to add to the millions who are starving and neglected by ill-prepared and deadbeat parents.

the mothers getting upset in this thread are not understanding this....i dont even feeling like they are trying

then again i understand their bias
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Originally posted by sugabanana sugabanana wrote:

Originally posted by Printer_Ink Printer_Ink wrote:

I don't feel a bit sorry for her.

Obviously her family situation is bad if she could not count on family to babysit while she went to work.

Another example of irresponsible sex if she got knocked up with 2 babies at her age ... where she knew did could not provide for them so she would end up leaving them in odd places ALONE instead of hiring help.

Should have had responsible sex and not gotten knocked up at all or had an abortion within the first month or two when the baby was the size of a pea.

Instead she brought those 2 innocents lives into the world (who knows what else they suffered at her hands) just so that they could die a horrible death like that.

Fry her.


I don't understand when people talk like this. Your observation is already after the fact that she had the kids. She probably had a good job before having the kids and lost it after the kids were born. YES she is wrong for leaving the innocent babies in the car but how can you chastise and say she should've had protected sex knowing the article states the kids are 20 months and 3 months already here in the world.

doesn't matter, it's still irresponsible

and i think PI did that to counter the sympathetic tone of the article which i totally understand
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Originally posted by niecy niecy wrote:

I don't get the whole choosing to be a single parent logic. While I agree that people need to be careful as far as having kids before they are ready for them, no person knows how the other parent will be as far as helping to take care of their children. Yes, she was dumb as hell for popping out a SECOND baby from the guy though (if in fact the kids are from the same guy and the father of her kids is really a deadbeat dad since I dont know what lead to her being a single parent).

In many case they do. If somebody is messing with an ain't sheit boyfriend, 9/10 he will be an ain't sheit father. But the cases in which the father tricks the woman into thinking that he really wants a child are the cases that suck.
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Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

This is disturbing .
I am sympathetic.

She was probably so afraid of getting fired and probably felt so alone.
No excuse but I damn.

She killed her babies yes.
This whole situation is terrible.

After we tell them to close their legs there has to be a better support system for the ones that don't.

They don't have to close their legs, use condoms. I'm so glad I have my family as a support system. This young lady may have had ptsd?
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