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    Posted: Dec 19 2013 at 7:55am
Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

im not a parent so i can't really comment… 
but i feel like a grandparent should be trusted. no matter if its your mom or his mom… 

yes, you know and trust your mother better.. but has his mom ever proved herself to be irresponsible as far as your child…? 

leave your and her personal issues at the door.. this is about your childs relationship with her paternal grandma… not about your and her relationship. 

if she has proven that she's irresponsible or if you feel like she wouldn't take care of your child well.. then i understand.. don't let them go.. 


i personally would really really feel a way if i couldn't take my own grandkid somewhere.. unless i had proof/reasons of why i shouldn't be trusted with my own grandkid…? fck outta here.. i would pitch a hissy fit and you would feel my wrath… 
ijs. 

she JUST turned 2



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Originally posted by khivey khivey wrote:

Ask to come along on the trip. She's too young and the trust isn't there. If they say you can't go, then you say you'd prefer to wait until she is older.


Yeah... this happened last year. I went a long and it turned into a big mess I had to end up getting a $400 plan ticket to go home so me going is definitely a no no.
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Originally posted by csungrl09 csungrl09 wrote:

its grandma, whats the problem?
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Originally posted by yaya24 yaya24 wrote:

Go with your gut.
2 years old is really young to be away from mom.. especially if you are not 100% for it.
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If you're not feeling it, then just send granny a cell phone video on Christmas. Granny will huff & puff but she'll be okay.
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I rather be safe than sorry when it comes to kids so go with your gut. 2 years old is too young to travel for me. I already know I'm over protective so they probably won't be traveling with anyone I don't like or trust.
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (1) Thanks(1)   Quote coconess Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Dec 18 2013 at 9:30pm
im not a parent so i can't really comment… 
but i feel like a grandparent should be trusted. no matter if its your mom or his mom… 

yes, you know and trust your mother better.. but has his mom ever proved herself to be irresponsible as far as your child…? 

leave your and her personal issues at the door.. this is about your childs relationship with her paternal grandma… not about your and her relationship. 

if she has proven that she's irresponsible or if you feel like she wouldn't take care of your child well.. then i understand.. don't let them go.. 


i personally would really really feel a way if i couldn't take my own grandkid somewhere.. unless i had proof/reasons of why i shouldn't be trusted with my own grandkid…? fck outta here.. i would pitch a hissy fit and you would feel my wrath… 
ijs. 


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Originally posted by Lady ICE Lady ICE wrote:

only my mom can take my kids. and still when she did she only went to cali. 6 hr drive. if i cant get to them in case of emergency they cant go.




its like that sometimes...

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Ask to come along on the trip. She's too young and the trust isn't there. If they say you can't go, then you say you'd prefer to wait until she is older.

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I don't know how parents can do it. I know I couldn't be a parent because my child would be strapped to me for at least the first 10 years.

Yeah but don't send your child with anyone you don't trust. I've heard of relatives doing underhanded ish like letting the child's hair look crazy (or pressing/perming/braiding it w/o permission), having them walk around in dirty clothes/diapers, and things like that...stuff that can be explained away if they're called on it but is really done on purpose to get back at the parent.
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (1) Thanks(1)   Quote Lady ICE Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Dec 18 2013 at 7:14pm
only my mom can take my kids. and still when she did she only went to cali. 6 hr drive. if i cant get to them in case of emergency they cant go.
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