John Galt Full Speech - Atlas Shrugged - Ayn Rand

Depression: The Key to Happiness

Depression is something i've had to deal with my entire life, yet the more i've grown the more i've come to realize and understand how it has both benefited and strengthened me. This world is upside down and backward. Depression is simply your authentic self knocking at the door. Remember - the world is crazy; you are not.

"The mind and spirit of man advance when he is tried by suffering. The more the ground is ploughed the better the seed will grow and the better the harvest will be. Just as the plough furrows the earth deeply, purifying it of weeds and thistles, so suffering and tribulation free man from the petty affairs of this worldly life until he arrives at a state of complete detachment. His attitude in this world will be that of divine happiness. Man is, so to speak, unripe: the heat of the fire of suffering will mature him. Look back to the times past and you will find that the greatest men have suffered most." - Abdu'l-Bahá

DR. JOHN HENRIK CLARKE - YOU HAVE NO FRIENDS

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Abilene paradox

The term was introduced by management expert Jerry B. Harvey in his article The Abilene Paradox: The Management of Agreement.^[3] The name of the phenomenon comes from an anecdote in the article which Harvey uses to elucidate the paradox:

On a hot afternoon visiting in Coleman, Texas, the family is comfortably playing dominoes on a porch, until the father-in-law suggests that they take a trip to Abilene [53 miles north] for dinner. The wife says, "Sounds like a great idea." The husband, despite having reservations because the drive is long and hot, thinks that his preferences must be out-of-step with the group and says, "Sounds good to me. I just hope your mother wants to go." The mother-in-law then says, "Of course I want to go. I haven't been to Abilene in a long time."

The drive is hot, dusty, and long. When they arrive at the cafeteria, the food is as bad as the drive. They arrive back home four hours later, exhausted.

One of them dishonestly says, "It was a great trip, wasn't it?" The mother-in-law says that, actually, she would rather have stayed home, but went along since the other three were so enthusiastic. The husband says, "I wasn't delighted to be doing what we were doing. I only went to satisfy the rest of you." The wife says, "I just went along to keep you happy. I would have had to be crazy to want to go out in the heat like that." The father-in-law then says that he only suggested it because he thought the others might be bored.

The group sits back, perplexed that they together decided to take a trip which none of them wanted. They each would have preferred to sit comfortably, but did not admit to it when they still had time to enjoy the afternoon.

The Abilene paradox is similar to groupthink, but differs in significant ways, including that in groupthink individuals are not acting contrary to their conscious wishes and generally feel good about the decisions the group has reached.^[5] In the Abilene paradox, the individuals acting contrary to their own wishes are more likely to have negative feelings about the outcome.

Like groupthink theories, the Abilene paradox theory is used to illustrate that groups not only have problems managing disagreements, but that agreement may also be an issue in a poorly functioning group.^[6]

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Abilene_paradox