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    Posted: Oct 22 2013 at 4:12pm
Originally posted by iGotSunshine iGotSunshine wrote:

update 
yesterday dude  called my hubby


I didn't know you'd gotten married

eta: but why should I have known LOL?=. None of my business.


Edited by PurplePhase - Oct 22 2013 at 4:13pm
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Oct 22 2013 at 3:38pm
Originally posted by iGotSunshine iGotSunshine wrote:

update 
yesterday dude  called my hubby and asked if we wanted to go bowling 
i told hubby no, i didnt feel comfortable so we didn't go 

well the dude still went w/ the new chick and another person  spotted them, took a photo and sent it to his gf. 
his gf told the lady that it's his cousin that's visiting him. 

now how this nigerian nicca has a white cousin idk but she believes it so whatever 




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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Oct 22 2013 at 12:58pm
Originally posted by iGotSunshine iGotSunshine wrote:

update 
yesterday dude  called my hubby and asked if we wanted to go bowling 
i told hubby no, i didnt feel comfortable so we didn't go 

well the dude still went w/ the new chick and another person  spotted them, took a photo and sent it to his gf. 
his gf told the lady that it's his cousin that's visiting him. 

now how this nigerian nicca has a white cousin idk but she believes it so whatever 

lmao...
 
now you know what...smdh!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Oct 22 2013 at 12:54pm
Originally posted by uppitynegroid uppitynegroid wrote:

Random thought:  Have any of you considered that the person cheated on may also be cheating themselves?  Does this change anything?
 
yep i definitely mind my business. lol
9 times out of 10, when folks are cheating the SO has some sort of inkling about it.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Oct 22 2013 at 12:53pm
Originally posted by iGotSunshine iGotSunshine wrote:

what if the culprit brings the new person out to dinner with yall 
i hate being in the middle of this type of sh*t 
 
if its one of my close people THEY KNOW BETTER.
I refuse to be involved in another shenaBrothans
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Oct 22 2013 at 12:52pm
Originally posted by iGotSunshine iGotSunshine wrote:

update 
yesterday dude  called my hubby and asked if we wanted to go bowling 
i told hubby no, i didnt feel comfortable so we didn't go 

well the dude still went w/ the new chick and another person  spotted them, took a photo and sent it to his gf. 
his gf told the lady that it's his cousin that's visiting him. 

now how this nigerian nicca has a white cousin idk but she believes it so whatever 

see I told ya....leave it alone...but you did what was in your heart now you see...
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Oct 22 2013 at 12:44pm
update 
yesterday dude  called my hubby and asked if we wanted to go bowling 
i told hubby no, i didnt feel comfortable so we didn't go 

well the dude still went w/ the new chick and another person  spotted them, took a photo and sent it to his gf. 
his gf told the lady that it's his cousin that's visiting him. 

now how this nigerian nicca has a white cousin idk but she believes it so whatever 

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Oct 22 2013 at 9:06am
Ive learned that ppl who are not prepared to leave usually dont. So i may not even bother. I would def not tell anyone who is prideful.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Oct 22 2013 at 8:56am
Originally posted by ShadyLady ShadyLady wrote:

If it's an associate, neighbor, co-worker, etc... I'm minding my biz.

But BAY-BAY...

Let it be one of my ridahs, or close family member?! Nicca, I will snitch on you in your face. Walk up to you and side chick, snap a pic, and say " So, you telling ___________, or you need me to make that call for you?"

What kinda friend would I be if I let someone dog out, mistreat, and possibly endanger my friend? HELL NAW!

And I'm automatically telling on your ass if you do some grimy mess like inviting your side chick out with me. You won't have my ass looking disloyal.

Any " friend" of mine who sits around twiddling her thumbs while I'm getting played would get a foot to the ass.
I will just roll with this cause I'm this way as well..
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Oct 22 2013 at 6:05am
Originally posted by Lady ICE Lady ICE wrote:

Originally posted by ShadyLady ShadyLady wrote:

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i swear everything you say goes perfectly with your aviLOL


Girl, I calmed down a lot over the last few years!

You shoulda seen me a few years ago when I had to go in the trunk for the baseball bat cuz this silly nicca had the nerve to cheat on my girl with my next next door neighbor( who had an "escort" page on Backpage), and this chick knew who he was.

I called my girl IMMEDIATELY. This silly nicca gon send the escort, who don't escort nothing but niccas to that bedroom, to the door to say I'm lying and he's not there LIKE HIS CAR WASN'T RIGHT OUTSIDE.

When he realized he better come outside or his headlights and windshield might get the business end of that bat, he flew outta there with a quickness. Didn't even bother to put his shirt and belt back on.

I'z changed now, but Day-Day can be resurrected with a quickness.
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