i felt like that too, 'i wouldnt wanna pay a man... that has a job... every month.. just cus im successful"
but if the roles were reversed (him paying me) i could see it.. its really a gender thing.. its 'normal' for the guy to support the woman..
i gotta be fair though.. i kinda agree with jones
i dont like it though.. i would get at that man all types of ways and call him all types of pucci-ho-bitches.. i would hope that the man im married to would never even accept alimony from me. thats some bish shat.. idc.
if i was successful (does he get acting jobs..?) as a doctor or some sort of business.. and depending on the situation/characteristics of how we ended.. i might decline his alimony.. it really depends.