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    Posted: Aug 20 2013 at 3:32pm
Originally posted by goodm3 goodm3 wrote:

Originally posted by uppitynegroid uppitynegroid wrote:

I think marriage is ideal when you have completed your education and you are settled in a career.  I've seen people try to do these things with a husband and kids and it can really suck.  Pursuing your studies, internships, and the job of your dreams is best when you are single and only have to consider yourself.  My classmates in this situation always tell me they wish they would have waited and I can see why.
 

 





I agree.  and during that period in your life you learn a lot about yourself and what you want in life. So when it is you time to get married, you go in with a much clearer head in my opinion. 




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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Aug 20 2013 at 3:31pm
Originally posted by goodm3 goodm3 wrote:

Originally posted by uppitynegroid uppitynegroid wrote:

I think marriage is ideal when you have completed your education and you are settled in a career.  I've seen people try to do these things with a husband and kids and it can really suck.  Pursuing your studies, internships, and the job of your dreams is best when you are single and only have to consider yourself.  My classmates in this situation always tell me they wish they would have waited and I can see why.
 
 


I agree.  and during that period in your life you learn a lot about yourself and what you want in life. So when it is you time to get married, you go in with a much clearer head in my opinion. 
 
Very true, and well put.  The person I am today would never have dated my first love 10 years ago. LOL
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Aug 20 2013 at 12:49pm
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Aug 20 2013 at 10:34am
Originally posted by goodm3 goodm3 wrote:

Originally posted by uppitynegroid uppitynegroid wrote:

I think marriage is ideal when you have completed your education and you are settled in a career.  I've seen people try to do these things with a husband and kids and it can really suck.  Pursuing your studies, internships, and the job of your dreams is best when you are single and only have to consider yourself.  My classmates in this situation always tell me they wish they would have waited and I can see why.
 
 


I agree.  and during that period in your life you learn a lot about yourself and what you want in life. So when it is you time to get married, you go in with a much clearer head in my opinion. 


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Aug 20 2013 at 10:23am
Originally posted by uppitynegroid uppitynegroid wrote:

I think marriage is ideal when you have completed your education and you are settled in a career.  I've seen people try to do these things with a husband and kids and it can really suck.  Pursuing your studies, internships, and the job of your dreams is best when you are single and only have to consider yourself.  My classmates in this situation always tell me they wish they would have waited and I can see why.
 
 


I agree.  and during that period in your life you learn a lot about yourself and what you want in life. So when it is you time to get married, you go in with a much clearer head in my opinion. 
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Aug 20 2013 at 9:38am
Originally posted by Sang Froid Sang Froid wrote:

Living life = hoing?
The only thing keeping me from getting married young is my fear of marrying the wrong person.


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I just agreed with sangConfused
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Aug 20 2013 at 2:29am
There's never a right time to get married.  Study, party responsible, travel around the world.  Get a great job, spoil your parents, buy an apartment in a country that you like the most.  Have a companion when you are 50!
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Aug 19 2013 at 8:23am
I think that phase during college you live life, party hard(3-somes, 1 night stands, internet dating, suga daddies, traveling, enjoying life)then you  graduate, then life begins and you start looking for a serious partner to build with. You land a great job, 401k stuff like that.

25-30 was my time frame but I got snatched up at 24.

I went from a m3 convertible to a 4 runner to a GL so you can only imagine how the family has grown.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Aug 19 2013 at 7:38am
I think 30+
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Aug 19 2013 at 1:34am
Life doesn't begin until you turn 30:) So don't sleep on the 30's at all....
You can always live life. Being married shouldn't stop that 

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