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    Posted: Aug 07 2013 at 8:12pm
Originally posted by ExotiqBeautii ExotiqBeautii wrote:

I am very surprised by some of the comments within this thread. Some of the advice that I've read, I find appalling. As for most of the advice, THANK YOU; it has given me more strength in not being as paranoid, though I do have really bad days in dealing with this. We are military, as I've stated before, so anyone that is, or has been in the military (or even a dependent), where should I go/whom should I talk to about this?

 I'm asking this because the issue I'm having here, is that my husband is a higher ranking soldier. In his job field, sometimes he does work in the embassies around the world. Our next duty station will possibly be at another embassy, and I was told that some of the assignments he'll be able to get, might not happen, because of my "state of mind". I don't mean this in a bad way, but he told me that some places around the world won't have the "specific doctors" I will need, if I need to see a head doctor. Many medical facilities in these countries are limited in what they practice, so the ARMY will more than likely station us in a place where it won't be too far for me to see a specialist if needed.

I heard there is a certain doctor that you can see, where it doesn't go on record that you're "Crazy". Trust me, the ARMY records everything, and it always effects the soldier's file.

Should I go to an off base specialist, or will that go in the record as well? I'm so confused, I don't know what to do right now.

I hope this makes sense; if not, let me know and I'll try to explain it better. I don't want to be limited in the places we get to choose to go.
U can go as a cash patient to a doctor/psych/therapist that is NOT part of the military benefits. you should be protected by HIPAA in the states. Overseas I am not sure how that would work. Cash patient. Dont bill their insurance. Hell go under alias if need be. Your mental health is VERY important. *hugs*
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Aug 07 2013 at 8:06pm
I am so sorry this happened to you. You may have PTSD and need to see a psych to help you get thru this. I am sure you are  a nervous wreck.


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Aug 06 2013 at 11:32pm
OP I am so sorry that this happened to you! I am in Chicago where crime is crazy and always carry pepper spray on me...it is extremely dangerous to be out alone that late. There's always someone ready and willing to prey on innocent women! Thank God you are okay, stay strong and invest in pepper spray!
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Aug 05 2013 at 11:59pm
this sounds so horrifying.  i'm glad you made it out relatively fine.  your husband must be going crazy with worry knowing he can't be there for you.

510queen, why did you FTP this?
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Aug 05 2013 at 3:40pm
Seriously praying for you and your family.I went through a similar experience when I was younger. With time and His touch things get better. Thank you for sharing your experience and alerting others.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jul 02 2013 at 9:38am
Honey I am glad you are seeing someone....I suffered from Insomnia for over 10 years...I can now fall asleep by drinking warm milk and Cherry juice... and no TV, computers or bright lights two hours before bed....

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jul 02 2013 at 8:02am
This is horrible. I'm so sorry this happened to you OP! This could have happened to ANYONE...regardless of how prepared you are.
 
I'm glad your okay and sharing your story with others. It will put more women on alert, and at the end of the day, that's the whole point.
 
God Bless You!
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jul 02 2013 at 1:52am
As long as military insurance is not aware you should not have any problems with overseas tours.  Benadryl will help you sleep as well.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 30 2013 at 2:41pm
Originally posted by lattabody lattabody wrote:

Originally posted by Prazol60 Prazol60 wrote:

Interesting. I thought everybody locked their car doors after carjacking got popular in the 90's.
u are an a$$ with a capital A. what kind of stupid statement is that? OP that God u are safe and ignore looser like Prazol60.


THANK UClapClap  THAT PERSON IS an A.S.S.  a true born idiot
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 30 2013 at 2:38pm
GOD was not ready for you...u mention u have children, HE wanted you to be there for them...yes as u mentioned this happened for a reason and this guy was too comfortable doing this and it sounds like unfortunately u had to become his next victim inorder for him to be caught..Yet u survived, fought(thinking of your family), and won..GOD ON UR SIDE..

thank u for your husband and all like him for protecting our country also...know u can't wait til he gets home..

take care and so sorry to read this..GOD BLESS
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