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    Posted: Jan 03 2014 at 3:06pm
Lawd, I just read all of this ShockedOuchShocked, I kept wondering why this thread was being bumped, I know why now.

I will never forget when that BHM member sold me that wig that someone had took the clippers to, it lterally looked like the lawn had been mowed on that Motha fukka, then the bish had the nerve to say " I didnt say it was wearable". ConfusedConfused

Like the other poster stated proceed with extreme caution with purchases here. Sad but true!


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^^^THIS!!!!!
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diva.. let us know if she gives some type of explanation‚Ķ 

how do you defend yourself but not even give explanation to the person who is out of money, plans ruined, and STILL hasn't got what she paid for or her money back? 
i understand things happen but she could have sent a message from her phone to explain the delay.. or have contacted paypal to admit fault so they could release her money.. 




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DAMN DAMN DAMN we just can't have nuffin can we? Every few months some shyyt goes on in M2M.
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My thing is this, you responded on this board rather than to me. It took being outed for you to show up, and then to say you're not responding here anymore but to email you? THAT'S THE PROBLEM IN THE FIRST PLACE. It's sooooooooo not right to even respond to a Paypal dispute or my emails when you know you're wrong. To make me wait til Paypal settles my dispute is so fkn triflin! I you certainly didn't have to await my payment so why even do some shady ish like that? Then to get defensive when other ppl simply stand up to help.... If it were you it else probably be a TOTALLY different story! People don't play abt their money. Again, lesson learned and I will tread with EXTREME caution from now on... I miss the good ole days of BHM!
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote Miss Taara Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 03 2014 at 11:32am
I agree Suga, I know ppl get busy like I said but it's already hard to trust complete strangers over the internet with a few hundred dollars, and then you completely vanish like Houdini on ppl... it's a cause for concern ESPECIALLY since this is not the first time it has happened.

and ps. I never got any notification that the transaction was cancelled. When I paid, I went right to the emailed invoice and paid you. Not sure how the inner working of Paypal go but seems to me if the transaction was cancelled, that invoice wouldn't work...

Nevertheless, this seems to be the only thing you care to refute when the issue is the amount of time you take to communicate with people. I'm sure if you told Diva that you were busy or whatever in a timely manner she would have been more accommodating and we wouldn't be here at all. Communication is key. It was key back when you first joined the board and is still key now, "Elite Member M*Gurl". You should know better.

Gonna let this thread die now... Diva gon get cha money girl!

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Originally posted by *M. Gurl * *M. Gurl * wrote:

There's no excuse or explanation  I can give about the whole situation because it wouldn't matter at this point so again I do apologize for how it all turned out. There has been a lack of communication and delay but I'm far from being a thief. As for miss taara, you and I know I cancelled the paypal payment you sent becauseyou paid days after I sent the invoice and it was already sold by then. The items sold is first come first serve basis.  I try to update BHM or fotki about sold items because I can't email or pm every person that inquires about an item.The only thing that took weeks was the back and forth convos before purchase.And if there was an issue with a previous purchase why try to purchase from me again?



M.Gurl you know you're my boo in all but instead of coming in here to defend yourself you should've been providing a tracking number to this po child that had to wear a shiny synthetic wig to her company party. Not a good look.

M.Gurl has been selling for a super longtime and this is the 1st that I've heard any issues. I'm not caping for her but perhaps something really did come up or happen in which there is still no excuse not to communicate.

I don't need yall coming in hurrr messing up my M2M purchases before I get my summer curls on.  Holla at me if you got something.


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I wasn't offering anything but defending myself by stating my side.I invoiced you, cancelled the invoice a few days after I didn't hear anything and you sent the payment anyway. When you emailed me about the refund I told you I sold it after I didn't hear anything because I thought you changed your mind and I had other people that wanted to buy it. The same situation has happened in the past which is why I don't hold anything anymore, just causes more problems. And I agree that I wont be selling anything for awhile because it has been too much of a hassle. I wont be commenting any further on here so for now I can be reached via email for anything else.


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Why accept money if you don't have time to deliver. This stuff kind of sucks and is the reason m2m is so deceased now.
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (2) Thanks(2)   Quote Miss Taara Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 03 2014 at 10:52am
There's no excuse or explanation but then you try to offer one about our encounter?

Look, I'm definitely not here to start drama or anything like that. I was completely honest about our experience. If we were talking consistently about me purchasing- why wouldnt you get back to me to tell me it was sold AFTER invoicing me? you didn't even update the post or fotki album until AFTER you refunded my money. Again, like I mentioned in my post...I completely stated that you IMMEDIATELY refunded my money- THAT was not the issue and was the reason I chose to do business with you again... I only spoke on the matter bc I could relate to you taking DAYS to get back to ppl. That ish aint right gul!

Moving on... I was just offering up my HONEST opinion on my experience with you. I do not think you should be selling ANYTHING if you are TOO BUSY to respond to ppl BEFORE or AFTER they pay. Just makes sense as a consumer and seller.

Ladies on here work too damn hard for their money (me included) to be jerked around and then not even offered an explanation about your tardiness.

....just saying.

Edited by Miss Taara - Jan 03 2014 at 10:53am
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