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    Posted: May 04 2013 at 4:32pm
I have lived with an ex. i dont regret it because It was because of his help i was able to finish and otain my college degree.  I was given the option to quit or work less and he would take of the all the major bills. I worked PT and was only responsible for my cell phone and car insurance. But i also opted to pay the cable/internet/phone as well. Although we didnt work out becuase of other reason(s) i have nothing but love and respect for him based on this. Heart 
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 04 2013 at 10:57am
What if you live together and your man cooks, cleans, AND pays the bills? Does that mean you ain't sh!t? Cry

Ain't no "wifey duties" here.

I cook and clean, but my SO is a neat freak. After I clean, he will go back a few days later and clean it again. I clean everything you can see. He is the kind of person that moves the sofa and entertainment center to clean behind it. It actually drives me nuts.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 04 2013 at 10:44am
Originally posted by carolina cutie carolina cutie wrote:

Originally posted by Allure. Allure. wrote:

Me and my current s/o lived together for a year before getting married and having our baby.

Me and my ex lived together for three years on and off, we were engaged for 2 of those years (we were super young, 19-21) until I broke up with him.
Congrats! Allure, when did you have your baby?Big smile


Living together, getting murried and then having a baby sounds like the route I'd like to take in the future.
 
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 01 2013 at 4:23pm
Originally posted by KottonKandy KottonKandy wrote:

yes, for the first time ever I am. I'm 30 btw. He travels for work and I'm home alone pretty much 75% of the time. It works for me.



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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 01 2013 at 4:02pm
yes, for the first time ever I am. I'm 30 btw. He travels for work and I'm home alone pretty much 75% of the time. It works for me.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 01 2013 at 3:37pm
Originally posted by iSMILE13 iSMILE13 wrote:

If that scenario was true for everyone then a lot of people wouldn't be married. Do what's best for your relationship
 
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 01 2013 at 2:22pm
Originally posted by nitabug nitabug wrote:

Originally posted by modelbusiness82 modelbusiness82 wrote:


I know women who do these things and aren't living with their men.

No offense to your mom because I'm positive she means nothing but the best for you, but she needs to redefine "wifey priveledges".


I don't think she needs to redefine it if that works for her relationship/lifestyle.


But if cooking/cleaning for your man = wifely privileges that one does with a man they live with. And by default if you do them while cohabitating, "no man will marry you because he's getting the milk for free". Then what does that say of the women who AREN'T living with their man but are cooking his meals and cleaning his house in the hopes of getting wifed up? Are they just intensely lost causes who will never in life get married? Are they immune to the cow/milk philosophy?

That's why I say "wifey privileges" needs to be redefined.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 01 2013 at 11:59am
Originally posted by modelbusiness82 modelbusiness82 wrote:


I know women who do these things and aren't living with their men.

No offense to your mom because I'm positive she means nothing but the best for you, but she needs to redefine "wifey priveledges".


I don't think she needs to redefine it if that works for her relationship/lifestyle.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 01 2013 at 11:57am
so summary?
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 01 2013 at 12:25am
I would rather live with a fiance than a boyfriend.
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