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    Posted: Feb 20 2013 at 7:46am
If one of your friends does something to you to really betray your trust. You talk to them about it and they just don't seem to get it. You have been friends with this person 7 years +
Is it wrong just to stop talking to them?
Don't answer calls or text messages?
Just a note the last time I tried to stop talking to this person they had an emotional fit, took my keys out my car and pretty much held me hostage.
I'm just trying to go about this in an adult way.

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Feb 20 2013 at 7:50am
No, it's not wrong. Especially if you already talked to the person about the issue and they still don't see what they did wrong
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Feb 20 2013 at 8:02am
Ignoring a person is not bad if you know for a fact that they'll be irrational if you try to cut them off verbally.

I have no problem ignoring people when I don't wanna be bothered with them anymore. I can show em better than I can tell em.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Feb 20 2013 at 8:04am
Just did someone like that and told her I was done with her ass...Never felt better....Aint nobody got time for that......
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Feb 20 2013 at 8:05am
tf? Does she know where you live?
Im sorry to say but this could get very ugly...
But to answer ur question, I dont have a problem ignoring people i no long wish to associate with
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Feb 20 2013 at 8:07am
I just feel so bad for this person. I don't know if they had a nervous break down or what but they literally held me hostage, and even after all the mess they caused they can't see the problem. This person already has abandonment issues. Idk I was taught to try to talk your problems out but I can't deal with crazy.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Feb 20 2013 at 8:09am
Originally posted by eanaj5 eanaj5 wrote:

tf? Does she know where you live?
Im sorry to say but this could get very ugly...
But to answer ur question, I dont have a problem ignoring people i no long wish to associate with




Thankfully she hasn't been to my new place. I am serious she took my keys and retreated into her house. It took me 20+ minutes to get them back.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Feb 20 2013 at 8:13am
So is this normal for her in the 7 years yall been friends?
Has she been to therapy?
Maybe you should suggest she goes or talk to one of her family members you know to get her to go...
cuz that aint normal Stern Smile
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Feb 20 2013 at 8:16am
No it's not normal she has never done this before. I was just happy she did not throw them out the window.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Feb 20 2013 at 8:18am
Originally posted by AwesomeAries AwesomeAries wrote:


Just a note the last time I tried to stop talking to this person they had an emotional fit, took my keys out my car and pretty much held me hostage.
 

Stern Smile
i need the backstory behind this statement. this is thread unto itselfLOL
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