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khivey 
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Posted: Feb 03 2013 at 5:35am |
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Been there, done that a few times...the good thing is I was able to realize I didn't want to spend the rest of my life with them, so you actually get to see what you have to deal with..the bad thing is the break up drags on...Now, I just prefer to spend a lot of time at each other's home until we are married.
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afrokock
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Posted: Feb 03 2013 at 4:54am |
 niecy wrote:
PurpleHaze wrote:
are you inviting bhm to the wedding afro?
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Afro don't want ya'll heffas crashing his wedding. |
 4 that i know would attend
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samorya
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Posted: Feb 03 2013 at 4:12am |
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iono. i think more ppl would do it, but would never admit to it. but a person doesn't know what they will do until they are in that situation. i think its perfectly fine. do what u wanna do.
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niecy
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Posted: Feb 03 2013 at 4:09am |
PurpleHaze wrote:
are you inviting bhm to the wedding afro?
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Afro don't want ya'll heffas crashing his wedding.
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blackarosoe
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Posted: Feb 03 2013 at 4:03am |
maysay1 wrote:
CLCNY20 wrote:
Prtybrwneye_z wrote:
dreamz wrote:
I know a hetero couple that have lived together for 22 years.
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^this, I know it works for some but it's not for me. I know folks who have been together for over 20 years, with teenage children and paying a mortgage. If ya can sign that deed you can sign a marriage certificate cuz they are both long term commitments. |
But, why buy the cow if you can get the milk for free? That's what these chicks aren't getting: if you are looking for comitment, you're going about it all wrong. These guys already feel ya'll are living the married life, so what's the big deal about getting a marriage certificate? |
I look at it the totally opposite way. If all the other stuff is together (financial, legal) then there's actually no need for a marriage certificate unless you just want one. A marriage certificate is just a legal shortcut...but you don't need it in order to receive many of the legal benefits that go along with it if you make other arrangements(of course that doesn't apply to every situation).
And getting married isn't enough to show that someone is committed, at least in my eyes. It shows commitment, yes, but so does combining finances, getting a mortgage together, naming your SO in your will, giving your SO medical/legal power of attorney, having shared goals, etc. etc. You don't need a marriage certificate for all that.
Shackin is fine and dandy to me. Not shackin is fine and dandy too. As long as you're in the situation you want.
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^ i agree
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Posted: Feb 03 2013 at 3:49am |
PurpleHaze wrote:
I don't think I could live with a snorer, but I have
heard couples say that one snores so they sleep separate.
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My fiance snores...  Until we got a memory foam mattress. :) Prior
to that I had to go to bed before him or else he'd keep me up. Or I'd
have to take a melatonin. That dude can saw wood for real. :(
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PurpleHaze
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Posted: Feb 02 2013 at 6:27pm |
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are you inviting bhm to the wedding afro?
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afrokock
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Posted: Feb 02 2013 at 6:25pm |
Gkisses wrote:
Imma need a youtube video of AK wedding especially if im not invited
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Posted: Feb 02 2013 at 5:24pm |
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Im fine with it
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Posted: Feb 02 2013 at 4:45pm |
Imma need a youtube video of AK wedding especially if im not invited
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