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    Posted: Jan 14 2013 at 4:42pm
Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

Originally posted by JasmineE02 JasmineE02 wrote:

Does anyone else ask permission or give warnings?  LOL  I always warn my husband if I'm feeling clingy.  He finds it much funnier and endearing than if I just randomly start doing it without explanation.  It might still annoy him a bit, but he's way more receptive.  For someone who isn't adept at picking up on nonverbal cues, it's really helpful.  I also just flat out ask him for what I need.  "You should buy me flowers sometime soon."  "I want to do something that involves dressing up for our anniversary."  He can't read my mind, so I help out a bit. LOL

my dh laughed at me bc in two days it'll be 1000 days of marriage and i said if you were here we could celebrate and he was like Confused

but i thought it was cuteCry


awwww...It is cute!
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 14 2013 at 4:35pm
Originally posted by JasmineE02 JasmineE02 wrote:

Does anyone else ask permission or give warnings?  LOL  I always warn my husband if I'm feeling clingy.  He finds it much funnier and endearing than if I just randomly start doing it without explanation.  It might still annoy him a bit, but he's way more receptive.  For someone who isn't adept at picking up on nonverbal cues, it's really helpful.  I also just flat out ask him for what I need.  "You should buy me flowers sometime soon."  "I want to do something that involves dressing up for our anniversary."  He can't read my mind, so I help out a bit. LOL

my dh laughed at me bc in two days it'll be 1000 days of marriage and i said if you were here we could celebrate and he was like Confused

but i thought it was cuteCry
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 14 2013 at 4:32pm
Originally posted by nycdiva357 nycdiva357 wrote:

 this thread is kinda disgusting--
when I think about all the other bhm threads where ppl talk about how marriages of today aren't shyt--
and how marriages of the past were great-- thats why they last so long.

it would be a different case if she was trying-- and they weren't getting anywhere- but she is not.

yet a lot of ppl are screaming divorce.

what happened to ppl compromising and meeting half way?



this is what most people in here are saying tho...
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 14 2013 at 3:23pm
i keep thinking this says "how do you make it to work"...i was preparing my answer in my head.

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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 14 2013 at 3:19pm
Sunshine I'm usually not all the way naked, but Im "naked" for me lol

LOL I better edit before I hear "put some clothes on" in an e-battle

Meanwhile I do wear clothes in the house, just very little 
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 14 2013 at 2:09pm
I get so amused reading these marriage threads and most of the single ladies posting "divorce" like thats the correct answer when a marriage isn't sailing along honky dorie.

Their marriage isn't bad--nobody is getting screamed at or hit, no one is cheating, no one is an addict...actually its just existing with 2 persons who love each other yet their personalities are polar opposites basically.

Visiting a marriage counselor would do wonders.  Compromise is what they aren't doing--thus both are miserable.

My hubby is a groper as weill...maybe its a male thingLOL 


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 14 2013 at 1:52pm
Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

Originally posted by rickysrose rickysrose wrote:

You can get happiness from making your spouse happy 

Compromise doesn't have to mean losing 


you can get happiness from making other people happy. point.blank.period. doesn't even have to be your spouse.
 
 
alas...this is my thinking...
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 14 2013 at 1:49pm
Originally posted by maysay1 maysay1 wrote:

Originally posted by rickysrose rickysrose wrote:

I genuinely did not know a hug was this serious

And I mean this in the most shade free way possible




It is for some. Some people do not like to be touched or to touch other people in that way. Like at all. Not family members, not spouses, not even their own children. And they're not autistic, suffering from ptsd, or been a victim of abuse or have anything "wrong" with them. They just don't like it.
 
i could understand this thought process a little better than....being affectionate with that other person/thing but not this one (as in the one they are sleeping with lol).  not saying this was part of the wifes reasoning...just responding to something that was thrown out there in this thread.
 
also, i didn't get the sense from the write up that this was her (the wifes) issue...
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 14 2013 at 1:20pm
wow 15 years?
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 14 2013 at 1:14pm
Originally posted by rickysrose rickysrose wrote:

I genuinely did not know a hug was this serious

And I mean this in the most shade free way possible




It is for some. Some people do not like to be touched or to touch other people in that way. Like at all. Not family members, not spouses, not even their own children. And they're not autistic, suffering from ptsd, or been a victim of abuse or have anything "wrong" with them. They just don't like it.
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