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    Posted: Jan 17 2013 at 12:08pm
You are right Veemack. I'm just not going to let my hair get in the way of living the way of it all. Will wear my hair out less often if it's too big of a mess.

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That is a compliment that he loves to play in your hair. When you get your hair to a healthy state and your styling simple it should be easy to recover from a lovemaking session. I suggest keeping your hair moisturized but not wet, using natural oils that penetrate the hair strands. I find that coconut oil does not give off that greasy vibe when someone touches your hair unless I am heavy handed with it. I can sleep in a twist out uncovered and still be rocking it the next day, it still looks good. Sometimes I am to tired to cover my hair at night, it amazes me that I have no knots or tangles in the morning....After the fun just pull it back into a ponytail and call it a night. Then wear a simple bun to work the next day. Rock your bun with good memories of the night before. Stay blessed!
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote momentoindigo Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jan 17 2013 at 8:59am
Mine works with me for the most part (my hair... not boo). He pulls on it and caresses it etc. It gets messy but afterwards I just throw it in a loose messy pony. The oils I use in my LOC method keep my hair shaft very smooth and lubricated so brush up afterwards is abreeze even without water, if I even bother to brush it back. Usually it only bugged me if my curls were already next to crappy from a few days not having been cowashed or washed and defined... so sex was no help to it but I was going to have to redefine them the next day anyways.
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That is so annoying when my guy plays in my hair too! Argh!
 
Since my hair is short, he just rubs his hands through it. I don't have any suggestions for you, but I feel your pain. What I normally do is re-wet it if I have somewhere to go afterwards.
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Thanks for all the suggestions ladies.

I just made a new album in my fotki with messy/frizzy hair inspiration pictures. My first goal will be to embrace my hair in that state, so I can be more laid back about it. Will try the other options (protective styling) if this doesnt work for me.
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I am single now, but my ex "LOVED" my hair.  I let him pull, tug, grab and do whatever he wanted to it!!  Me personally, I didn't care!  My hair being messy and a bit out of place afterwards was a turn on to him as well Embarrassed  hmmmmm, miss those days :)

Maybe pull it up in a puff??  Or twists as suggested?  Either way, it's gonna get "tampered" with :)

Enjoy!!
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Originally posted by Louel Louel wrote:


Talkt about the matter with a friend today, and she suggests box braids or twists. I might try to blow dry and twist my hair next month, to see how that works out.



Yes! I was gonna suggest doing twists or braids with no extensions.  The scalp is still accessible.  This is how I wear my hair and I can cowash daily so it works well.  Also, my hair is really soft to touch due to being properly moisturized.  It's a win-win.
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sounds like a great problem to have... good luck
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you caught that Louel! Lol! Have fun and GL!
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You're welcome and wow then that man does LOVE hair indeed, that pony is your saving grace!

(Hey Luv :) )
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