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BrookeRenee 
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Posted: Dec 30 2012 at 4:05pm |
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You definitely did the right thing by letting it go. I strongly suggest you keep it moving for good. Break ups-to makeups are so tiresome and filled with drama, Im a firm believer that if a relationship doesnt work out the first time or two...its a reason for it, it just isnt meant to happen.
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dOLLish.
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Posted: Dec 30 2012 at 12:37am |
Good job, OP.  It sounds as if he's trying to guilt you into sticking around. What does his mother's feelings have to do with your relationship? You deserve better!
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Midna
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Posted: Dec 28 2012 at 4:37pm |
Let him eat dust!  He can kick rocks! You strut away and never look back!
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tochid
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Posted: Dec 27 2012 at 10:12pm |
Hey ladies.
So today I texted the ex and told him if he thinks he's gonna break up with me and still try to  then he's out of his mind. He obviously didnt take it well. Brought up his mom and how she loves me and I should respect her? ( Guess thats from the sh*t happens comment). I just said okay to that. The he started talking about how busy I am. I told him I'm not going to apologize or be made to feel bad for doing what I'm supposed to be doing at this point of my life which is trying to make something of myself. He said some more things and I just responded ok to everything he said. I no longer care. I'm over it.
Good riddance to bad rubbish.
Thanks for the support ladies.
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Flowing-Ice
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Posted: Dec 27 2012 at 4:34pm |
you weren't wrong. leave him in the rear-view mirror. for good this time
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Posted: Dec 27 2012 at 12:51pm |
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See you later mama's boy...Plus he's broke!!!
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DarkestBeauty
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Posted: Dec 27 2012 at 12:41pm |
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Midna
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Posted: Dec 27 2012 at 3:20am |
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Leave that bum ass fool and don't fall for that crap again. An ex is an ex so treat him like one. You continuing to bone him after he broke up with you and keeping you in the dark about what you two were was a huuuuuge waste of time and I strongly suggest you never put yourself through anything like that again for the sake of your sanity and self esteem. Not a good idea ever.
Anyway, I get that you knew this guy for a long time, but OP, it's time to let him go. It is clear this guy does not better your life in any way and is not committed to you either. He can take you back and dump you and he knows he still has access to your panties.
This man does not compliment you in any way other than a romp in the sack. He does not better you other than getting your punani hot and wet. He does not improve your life other than giving you an orgasm. Other than being a good sex toy, this guy is basically something to babysit and you already know you can do better which is exactly why you find yourself annoyed with him; while you're doing better for yourself, he's sitting back and being dependent on others.
Due to the unnecessary rough history you two share, I suggest plain cutting him off and ignoring him.
My first relationship went exactly like this but within 6 months I got over him and stopped banging him and suddenly, he was magically in love with me all over again and regretted dumping me. He'd try to tell me he loves me and one day I just told him I no longer feel that way.
Dude then gives me a year of drama and finally one day, I told him I'm done. AND I WAS DONE! He texted me a couple weeks later saying he bought a present for me, but I didn't give a fuuuuck. I really was done. That was the last contact I ever had with him and that was three years ago.
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Posted: Dec 27 2012 at 12:14am |
Its time that you try and live without him for a while..keep us posted.
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tochid
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Posted: Dec 26 2012 at 9:07pm |
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Thanks Colby. I feel like I need validation more than advice. Whenever I try to talk to my friends about the situation they're always like, but he's so nice blah blah blah. Maybe cuz we're all young? I feel what I'm doing now is the right thing tho. Thanks.
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