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    Posted: Dec 29 2012 at 2:42pm
Originally posted by eanaj5 eanaj5 wrote:

i dont think side chicks always settle because they have no other options.
maybe they dont want main chick responsibilities/worries/stress
its like being a fck buddy except there's a third person involved

 
LOL is that what they try to convince themselves and others of nowadays? "I don't want the 'stress' of a relationship, so I'll just settle for someone else's scraps.No worries, I won't get hurt this way."
 
10+ years ago, when my self esteem & self love was at a low, I was a side chic and I told myself that ish.  too.LOL
 
 
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Real talk though, people need to have open relationships if they know they're going to participate in such fùckery.

Nobody likes to be deceived so to see co-signing of this or detailing how it should be done genuinely shocks me. If you want the multiple partner life in a relationship, I say don't do it to the deceit of a loved one but do it to their knowledge and acceptance. Who knows though. Maybe some people get a rush out of dishonesty and secrecy.

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I can't even believe what I'm reading in this thread.

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Usually I would respond to everyone that quoted me but I don't feel like it at the moment....





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Originally posted by tatee tatee wrote:

Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

Originally posted by BBpants BBpants wrote:

nothing wrong with being a side chick lol Somebody has to play that role !! 

 


that is not a role that has to be filled. smh @ the cosignage of tomfooleryLOL
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Originally posted by nitabug nitabug wrote:


Originally posted by BBpants BBpants wrote:

I can why she didnt get a text. If he texts her merry christmas, she may expect a gift or a visit...and side chicks dont get those so it's best to ignore her altogether til the next day.
since when?

I had one take me out for my birthday and his gf came too. Pfft, she aint doing it right...



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Originally posted by EasterBell EasterBell wrote:

Can't believe y'all in here discussing what makes a good sidechick..  At the end of the day, gift or no gift, they ain't starting. Just on the bench..  Not too many women, say "hey, I want to be the #2 girl in your life".. Lot of them settle for that role, because they ( to no avail (a lot)) be waiting in the wings, hoping for that number 1 spot.

 
They probably getting good gifts because dude ain't trying to let that side cooch go so easy.
 
Or the side chick/dish may have a #1 and a #2......he/she may not care that she is #2 for someone because he/she is a #1 for another.
 
I hear all types of ish these days.
 
 
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Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

Originally posted by jonesable jonesable wrote:

I know side chicks who get gifts as good as the GF or wife....

It's terrible but yeah if she chooses this life she might need to upgrade
sometimes even better gifts


chapter 6 and chapter 6 section 8 respectively...how to supersede the main chick w/o becoming the main chick
 
LOL.  Ok, is there a handbook that summarizes these sections and can i get it on Kindle?
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Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:

Originally posted by BBpants BBpants wrote:

nothing wrong with being a side chick lol Somebody has to play that role !! 



that is not a role that has to be filled. smh @ the cosignage of tomfooleryLOL
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Originally posted by BBpants BBpants wrote:

nothing wrong with being a side chick lol Somebody has to play that role !! 

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