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    Posted: Dec 28 2012 at 5:43am
 i thought the op was clear that it wasnt a black person saying this.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Dec 27 2012 at 10:27pm
my bf had never dated a black girl before me. he is half black and half white.

i've gone out with a little bit of black guys, but it didn't work out.

so, we are both new to each other LOL.

some of his family members are hard on him though and tell him, "finally you are dating someone with some color, its about time."
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Dec 27 2012 at 3:57pm
Originally posted by mrshairdo mrshairdo wrote:

if he was black i'd dump his ass
any other race, i guess i would understand
 
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Dec 27 2012 at 3:43pm
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Dec 27 2012 at 3:03pm
Originally posted by Limalady Limalady wrote:

Originally posted by BeatriceBean BeatriceBean wrote:

Originally posted by Limalady Limalady wrote:

Why is the assumption that the person saying this is not Black?
 
My cousin is 47 and has never dated a Black woman. He's my cousin but I hate him on the low lol
 
47? Shocked I have several cousins like this, but they are in their 20's. I only hate one my cousins like this, but he is a jacka$$. I know people like this. I don't hate them, but I side eye them. It was also the cause of a break-up in the past, but they guy was Black and acted like he was doing me a favor. I know women like this too.
 
I don't hate him only because he's never dated a Black woman. He gives plenty of reasons to hate him.
 
He's been married and divorced twice, to one White woman for 19 years and another for 6, yet White women are still his standard for womanhood.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Dec 27 2012 at 2:33pm
Originally posted by tatee tatee wrote:

Originally posted by BeatriceBean BeatriceBean wrote:

I think that it's different if you've hit it off with a person of a different race...as in you've already established a relationship/friendship that isn't built around racial difference. I don't think that there's anything wrong with it being brought up, as long as it isn't made into an issue.
Coming out the gate...man get the hell out my face.
 
 
I had a white male "friend" once, and he had dated many Black women, and because of it, he thought that he was an expert on Blackness and Black womanhood.


i am convinced this is the only reason white ppl try to befriend meLOL they really be comin at me like awww let me educate blackie on her culture, food, music and history and im like bitch didnt you learn that sh*t on a pbs docConfusedLOL.


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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Dec 27 2012 at 2:25pm
Originally posted by BeatriceBean BeatriceBean wrote:

I think that it's different if you've hit it off with a person of a different race...as in you've already established a relationship/friendship that isn't built around racial difference. I don't think that there's anything wrong with it being brought up, as long as it isn't made into an issue.
Coming out the gate...man get the hell out my face.
 
 
I had a white male "friend" once, and he had dated many Black women, and because of it, he thought that he was an expert on Blackness and Black womanhood.


i am convinced this is the only reason white ppl try to befriend meLOL they really be comin at me like awww let me educate blackie on her culture, food, music and history and im like bitch didnt you learn that sh*t on a pbs docConfusedLOL.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Dec 27 2012 at 2:25pm
Originally posted by BeatriceBean BeatriceBean wrote:

Originally posted by Limalady Limalady wrote:

Why is the assumption that the person saying this is not Black?
 
My cousin is 47 and has never dated a Black woman. He's my cousin but I hate him on the low lol
 
47? Shocked I have several cousins like this, but they are in their 20's. I only hate one my cousins like this, but he is a jacka$$. I know people like this. I don't hate them, but I side eye them. It was also the cause of a break-up in the past, but they guy was Black and acted like he was doing me a favor. I know women like this too.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Dec 27 2012 at 2:24pm
My husband was the first White Man I ever dated, glad he stuck with me and didn't hold it against me? 
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Dec 27 2012 at 2:18pm
I think that it's different if you've hit it off with a person of a different race...as in you've already established a relationship/friendship that isn't built around racial difference. I don't think that there's anything wrong with it being brought up, as long as it isn't made into an issue.
Coming out the gate...man get the hell out my face.
 
 
I had a white male "friend" once, and he had dated many Black women, and because of it, he thought that he was an expert on Blackness and Black womanhood.
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