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    Posted: Dec 19 2012 at 12:58pm
Originally posted by maysay1 maysay1 wrote:

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Maysay, I hope you feel better soon. Hug
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They only thing that writer said that wow'd me was that he made the NYT best seller list.

And that was a "Haha, SRSLY? " wow, not an "Impressive! " wow.
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Originally posted by OoDles O OoDles O wrote:

People like "do'ers" "Creators, Assets" ... or people who get things done. People who have a skill that others can benefit from... in essence... being motivated is the fuel here. 

Regardless of how you see yourself ....How your family sees you.. and how your friends see you... most of the world will only see you as a by product of what you can do for them. 

"What have you done for me lately?" 
"What have you done for me lately!!!?" -Janet Jackson

If the world didn't work this way then we would all fester in our own vacuum accomplishing nothing and moving know where.

There's a reason why major cities are hubs for grand idea's, new philosophies , innovative design and technology with the goal of utilizing the resources already in place / established by others to build your own set of amenities or initiatives

thats why The Wire was so brilliant BHM ( Im just ranting now). Its like.. people are good..yes.. people are bad...(Depending on what side you stand on) but people will utilize institutional systems to benefit themselves and others... or just themselves .. The beneficiaries on the outside will say "that person is great"... Those who don't benefit will say " That person is terrible"

And these systems are not linear. They're overlapping and complicated driving some to become hermits and smolder in their own misery rather than confront the complexities of establishment. Its insane. Its life

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People like "do'ers" "Creators, Assets" ... or people who get things done. People who have a skill that others can benefit from... in essence... being motivated is the fuel here. 

Regardless of how you see yourself ....How your family sees you.. and how your friends see you... most of the world will only see you as a by product of what you can do for them. 

"What have you done for me lately?" 
"What have you done for me lately!!!?" -Janet Jackson

If the world didn't work this way then we would all fester in our own vacuum accomplishing nothing and moving know where.

There's a reason why major cities are hubs for grand idea's, new philosophies , innovative design and technology with the goal of utilizing the resources already in place / established by others to build your own set of amenities or initiatives

thats why The Wire was so brilliant BHM ( Im just ranting now). Its like.. people are good..yes.. people are bad...(Depending on what side you stand on) but people will utilize institutional systems to benefit themselves and others... or just themselves .. The beneficiaries on the outside will say "that person is great"... Those who don't benefit will say " That person is terrible"

And these systems are not linear. They're overlapping and complicated driving some to become hermits and smolder in their own misery rather than confront the complexities of establishment. Its insane. Its life

:wizsmile:



Edited by OoDles O - Dec 19 2012 at 11:24am
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Originally posted by nitabug nitabug wrote:

I actually thought this entire list was stupid, except for number 1.

And number one doesn't even apply to me, but I can't wait to say that sh*t to a certain someone I work with.
 
i didn't really get the list either...
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I actually thought this entire list was stupid, except for number 1.

And number one doesn't even apply to me, but I can't wait to say that sh*t to a certain someone I work with.
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what skill are guys picking to work on? and we going to report back in 2013?
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Poor Corgi.LOL
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I never even heard of this Glen Gary but I need to watch just for Alec.  Lawd I used to crush on him hard.  He got an Oscar nod just for that speech?  I need to add this to my netflix list.

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I totally understand the analogy used in the article. It is food for thought, Midna. 
 
In the healthcare field for example, there are people who percieve their care to be "better", based on how the surroundings "look", for example did the nurse/doctor "look professional", or "was the food appetizing",  instead of "did the nurse/doctor save your life" or was the food appropriate to your "health or condition"? 
 
I do think that many people would rather have a superfically appealing messenger, instead of taking the message to heart, even when it is in their best interest.
 
The truth is often a bitter pill to swallow. 
 
 
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