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    Posted: Mar 09 2013 at 9:02am
I wouldn't say that MOST men cheat, but any person (woman or man) is capable of being tempted by another.
 
Its sad that so many have a negative perception of marriage and loyal relationships. People will have you believing that there is no such thing as a faithful person.
 
There are many loyal, loving, faithful, and respecting men that are focused on staying in committed relationships and don't want to cheat. Don't lower your standards because you believe cheating/infidelity is so common place and normal (its not). 


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I believe anyone can cheat male & female, but not everyone cheats. 

I worked at a hotel and seen men who were on business trips that would cheat on their wives with younger females and even their business partners.

Cheating is not a young thing, it has nothing to do with bad chicks or guys with swagg, anyone age group can cheat no matter how successful they are. There's even a website for married couples to cheat & i've seen pastors & preachers cheat....its crazy but you gotta have hope & trust, 

but WHAT SCARES me the most is sometimes people never find out if there spouse cheats...which to me is the craziest...or one spouse cheats for a certain time, & the other never founds out.

like i said its based on trust 
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Nah - if he loves you, he won't cheat.

First raise your standards: get a MAN not some dude who claims he has "swag". Swag doesn't pay any bills and doesn't help you raise kids.

Second: if you aren't sure about him because you don't think he is love with you, or you think he is cheating or you think he needs LOTS of improvement (a total makeover on his behavior) - dump the dude. Don't try to turn the guy into something you want. You'll sound like a b!tch and he will hate you.
I read this once and thought it was so true that I wrote it down:

"Men want more than anything, to be adored and idolized by a woman. Looks are just the icing on the cake"

It doesn't mean that you kiss his ass and say amen to anything he does. But you respect him, you support him and you believe in him. That's why a woman needs to raise her standards, only go out with a man who has what she wants, not the cute dude on welfare.

If he loves you...he won't cheat. That's my experienceHeart



Oh, and to the nasty ladies who were cheated on and believe that all men cheat and I am a fool to not agree......you are just bitter.LOL
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Originally posted by Midna Midna wrote:

I think the majority of men cheat because society enables them to. Infidelity and dishonesty in relationships is so widespread because dudes are conditioned to feel entitled to sex.

It's gotten to a point where they now try to say it's human nature and men need to betray their partners to continue the human race or it's in their instinct.

I call this bullshit. The thing about evolution and multiple partners is that it is used to continue a species against the odds. The human race is clearly not in danger and clearly does not have an enemy that benefits off its death. In other words, we're at the top and we don't have any species that could bring us down as a whole.

Humans are one of the very few species that have sex for pleasure. Most other species do it to continue their species in a world filled with predators looking to be the end for them. But we do not have to worry about that and can afford to have sex for pleasure. Because of this lack of predatory danger and ability to have sex for pleasure, there is a fuckton of us to the point where our numbers are now invading on the numbers of other species and making them dwindle as a result.

So when I hear that cheating is done as some evolutionary trait, I laugh because it's clearly an excuse. We are not the more primitive animals some try to say we are when it comes to sex because our brains are far more advanced than all other species. When people say things like that, they essentially want to absolve themselves of the responsibility of themselves. It's easier to blame other things for one's own actions, isn't it?

It's funny because even though animals are far less advanced than humans, there are actually monogamous species out there in a world where their own existence is endangered due to predators of all species.

Now if you're single, go get aaaall the sex you want. That's on you. But I do not support the idea that cheating is supposed to be accepted in a relationship with monogamous terms. There is no evolutionary trait in betraying and deceiving the partner you are supposed to trust and hold in higher regard. If you want that kind of conduct in a relationship, it's better you just get an open relationship where both parties understand that sex is a free for all in the relationship.

If the partner doesn't agree to those terms, onto the next one. But it is far better than lying and deceiving someone to get your jollies.


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I believe any man can cheat, it's rare to find a man now & days that's faithful. Same goes for women...
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I believe a lot of them do. I remember a colleague telling me he cheated on his girlfriend with one of her friends and quite a few other people. This guys was obese lol, I thought damn even the ones who aren't attractive have 'options' imagine what a man who constantly has women throwing themselves at him gets up to.
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PEOPLE will cheat if they desire to do so. Man or woman. Thy flesh is weak.
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Originally posted by Midna Midna wrote:

Anybody can cheat, period. In the end, it's all up to them, no matter how much they try to blame someone else. If they weren't raped, they cheated.
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