Shall I tell??

I wouldn't bother telling her. Why even think to do it? She's not dating him anymore and she's moved on so I doubt she would want to know what he is up to these days. The only reason to tell her at this point would be to irritate her and start some messy ass drama.

Messy ass drama is only fun on BHM.

It is a bit confusing whether you're referencing the ex or her current married bf as the person who approached.

But...telling her that her married bf put the moves on you is irrelevant. She's already crossing the line being with a man who's married, how much loyalty could she be expecting from that man?

Likewise, if her relationships are messy, whether it's her on again off again bf or the married man...either one isn't really worth it to get into with her. She's not going to believe you.

keelolo1 wrote: Stay out of it especially if they ratchett. She will blame u. Take it from me, i've been thru this before. I was blamed for "tryna holla at her man".

I kinda agree with this.. But more so If that was her real boyfriend. Since its just a married guy I think you should tell her.


I have had 2 friends who's dudes tried to talk to me (one friend, it happened twice.. Like with two of her dudes)
1 of them.. I told both times.. She wasn't mad at me, but she basically continued to talk to them. It made things really awkward cus we were like all friends.. I was with her from sun up to sun down, she was my BFF.. and he'd tag along or he'd already be at her house.. Then he hated me.

The other.. I didnt tell at first.. i asked 3 of our close friends what i should do and they said i shouldnt tell either. But he got crazy and would show up at my house (this was one of my bestfriends boyfriend and father of her child. they have been together for like 6 yrs.. i was with her the day they met.. trifling..) he's been a dog though he's cheated on her a lot.. She cheated on him too when he was in jail
So yea i eventually told her.. she hates me now.
But I think it's partially because she found out that I didn't tell her from the start.. She thinks I was messing with him and started all these crazy lies about how she caught us doing stuff.

And when she started fighting me her BD blocked and grabbed her..
She really hates me


Edited by coconess - Dec 16 2012 at 6:50pm

wait.  so did the ex corner you or her current married bf (that you know)?  i read it to mean the current married bf was trying to hollah...

I would tell her, but she probably won't listen.
been there, done that.
she ended up asking him about it. he lied. then he told me he lied. lmao.