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    Posted: Nov 28 2012 at 11:18am
tropical I am being a scaredy cat lol, i don't want to hear that his friend might be a girl. And I don't want to ask questions that are too invasive to the point of him thinking I don't trust him or I'm overly insecure for the fact that I DO want it to develop into something more in the future.. but I am very guilty of cutting things off if i get scared. 
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 28 2012 at 11:15am
If you really like this man, don't be afraid to ask him questions. Sounds like you are scared of the answer. Do you not want to become bf/gf in the future? Sounds like you're going to let things go without even really knowing everything.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 28 2012 at 10:48am
Originally posted by _leah _leah wrote:

but i completely agree with samone on your point about being reassured, its been a long time since i've really liked someone and I do want to be sure that im not wasting my time. 


You can never be sure about anyone that you are dating if they are going to break your heart tomorrow vs 6 mos from now.  Love is risky, that's what makes it thrilling. LOL

You weigh the risks, and decide if this guy has proved to you that he's trustworthy or not.
 
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 28 2012 at 10:34am
thanks hun!! Hug & everyone else for the advice as well.. 

Thread done lol 
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 28 2012 at 10:32am
yeah if 2-3 weekends went by id be like wtf son lol
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 28 2012 at 10:31am
but i completely agree with samone on your point about being reassured, its been a long time since i've really liked someone and I do want to be sure that im not wasting my time. 
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 28 2012 at 10:28am
Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


you have trust issues with him

you say it stems from past relationships so I get that

that fact that you are posting texts (no shade) shows that you need to be reassured by others that all is on the up and up

if he wasn't away, would you still feel like this?

I mean say yall just didn't see each other for 4 days (still in the same city though)....would you think he was "cheating"
good points..
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 28 2012 at 10:28am
probably not, we live relatively far from each other so we really only see each other on weekends anyway. 

I know y'all I'm just bugging right now lol 
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 28 2012 at 10:27am
okay good to know Lol thanks guys, this was going to drive me cray cray lol 
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 28 2012 at 10:26am
Yeah, you found someone that, with time, you can truly fall for, which is probably why you are having those feelings.  Yeah, seems like, for now, he is being honest and trying to let you know you can trust him..
LOL @ you saying that you ain't worried but you on BHM posting about trust issues..LOL
 
Just communicate with him..


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