Dating older men

sexyandfamous wrote: just curious: is he white? not sure if you posted that already. I can't picture a 45-year-old Reggie Bush look-alike talking about his feelings.

He's black, from one of the hoodest hoods. He doesn't look like reggie bush, I was just saying that I have always appreciated a younger looking face such as rb's. I think he's seeing the light at the end of the tunnel so its cool.

I guess I wouldnt mind the compliments if I was more into him. Trey songz could talk me to death about his feelings if he wanted to.

just curious: is he white?
not sure if you posted that already.

I can't picture a 45-year-old Reggie Bush look-alike talking about his feelings.


Edited by sexyandfamous - Nov 30 2012 at 1:13am

bk2la981 wrote: All this geriatric wants to do is talk about feelings. Pays me too many compliments, it makes me feel a bit uncomfortable. I don't know how to get out of it since we kinda work together. I tried to play the, its not you, its me card but he didn't care and wants to ” help” me get past my ” problems”.

are you still sexually and physically attracted to him? Because if you aren't just end with him and tell the reasons, the same way you would do with a guy your age.

I dated a guy older than me and he also came on too strong with the compliments and his feelings and I just told him that it was too much.  He relaxed it a bit and everything went well after that.

I'm creeped out by men younger than me, not older.  12 yrs may or may not be a big deal depending on the 2 people involved.  Ideally, I think a 5 year age difference (give or take a couple years) is ideal. 

EPITOME wrote: is this why you're single? he sounds nice.

Lol! He talks tooo much. Like redundant. Its not just the compliments. He talks about alll his feelings and expects me to do the same and wants confirmation about everything. I'm laid back and sound like it on the phone and he feels that I don't like him because I don't sound peppy enough on the phone and he goes into a long drawn out conversation about it all the time. I'm different in person though and he knows this, yet he can't get over my phone voice.