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bk2la981
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Topic: Dating older men Posted: Nov 30 2012 at 6:26pm |
sexyandfamous wrote:
just curious: is he white? not sure if you posted that already.
I can't picture a 45-year-old Reggie Bush look-alike talking about his feelings.
| He's black, from one of the hoodest hoods. He doesn't look like reggie bush, I was just saying that I have always appreciated a younger looking face such as rb's. I think he's seeing the light at the end of the tunnel so its cool. I guess I wouldnt mind the compliments if I was more into him. Trey songz could talk me to death about his feelings if he wanted to.
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sexyandfamous
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Posted: Nov 30 2012 at 1:12am |
Oh and when I told him to relax a bit it was more about the feelings talk; I loved the complimenting part! It boosted my self-esteem ;)
Edited by sexyandfamous - Nov 30 2012 at 1:13am
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sexyandfamous
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Posted: Nov 30 2012 at 1:11am |
just curious: is he white? not sure if you posted that already.
I can't picture a 45-year-old Reggie Bush look-alike talking about his feelings.
Edited by sexyandfamous - Nov 30 2012 at 1:13am
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bk2la981
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Posted: Nov 30 2012 at 12:54am |
I agree with all 3 of you ladies. I think I stil am attracted to him, I'm just not used to it. Ive always appreciated a younger face, ie reggie bush, ochostinko, etc... Maybe its something I would have to get used to, but the feelings talks gets on my nerves and I don't think he can help/stop it. Maybe I wouldnt mind it so much if I was more into him, idk... Maybe I'm just being mean.
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sexyandfamous
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Posted: Nov 29 2012 at 6:00pm |
bk2la981 wrote:
All this geriatric wants to do is talk about feelings. Pays me too many compliments, it makes me feel a bit uncomfortable. I don't know how to get out of it since we kinda work together. I tried to play the, its not you, its me card but he didn't care and wants to ” help” me get past my ” problems”. |
are you still sexually and physically attracted to him? Because if you aren't just end with him and tell the reasons, the same way you would do with a guy your age. I dated a guy older than me and he also came on too strong with the compliments and his feelings and I just told him that it was too much. He relaxed it a bit and everything went well after that.
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kaai
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Posted: Nov 29 2012 at 3:23pm |
it sound like you guys just ain't a good match. age doesn't seem to be the issue here..... you just dont like him or you expect him to act older..... he sound a little immature
Next! I would date an older guy but I would've to have things in common w him...
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uppitynegroid
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Posted: Nov 29 2012 at 1:57pm |
I'm creeped out by men younger than me, not older. 12 yrs may or may not be a big deal depending on the 2 people involved. Ideally, I think a 5 year age difference (give or take a couple years) is ideal. In all honesty, it really doesn't matter at the end of the day. The older I get, the more I realize its character, not age that you should be concerned with.
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Gkisses
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Posted: Nov 29 2012 at 1:45pm |
FarraFace wrote:
Whatever gkisses! If his ass was covered in tats, spikes, a weeks worth of grime, and had a little zest sprinkled on for good measure, yo ass would be slangin low sodium plates lef an right.
Wuteva trick. Wut.evv.errrrr!
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bk2la981
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Posted: Nov 29 2012 at 1:42pm |
EPITOME wrote:
is this why you're single? he sounds nice. | Lol! He talks tooo much. Like redundant. Its not just the compliments. He talks about alll his feelings and expects me to do the same and wants confirmation about everything. I'm laid back and sound like it on the phone and he feels that I don't like him because I don't sound peppy enough on the phone and he goes into a long drawn out conversation about it all the time. I'm different in person though and he knows this, yet he can't get over my phone voice.
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Chyna_Li
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Posted: Nov 29 2012 at 8:58am |
Positive K wrote:
Man if you a single 30 year old woman u should be open to dating men all the way up to 50.
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nope, but to each its own
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