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    Posted: Nov 14 2012 at 3:04pm
If he was an absentee father then it would be another issue..my father always praised my sisters and ifor our Inteligence, any inherent talent and beauty as every father should...if they should hear it from anyone it should be their dad..ppl find anything to bitch about..trivial sh*t irks me.
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Originally posted by Elohim_is_Love Elohim_is_Love wrote:

Originally posted by Az~Maverick Az~Maverick wrote:

I've NEVER had a problem with telling BOTH my 19 & 20 (boy & girl) year old how beautiful/handsome, intelligent, and awesome they are since they were little. It became second nature to me to do that. And to this day, I STILL do it, so the author is definitely on some stuff that I cannot relate to.
 
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Originally posted by Az~Maverick Az~Maverick wrote:

I've NEVER had a problem with telling BOTH my 19 & 20 (boy & girl) year old how beautiful/handsome, intelligent, and awesome they are since they were little. It became second nature to me to do that. And to this day, I STILL do it, so the author is definitely on some stuff that I cannot relate to.


I tell my boys how attractive they are all the time. I am not sure if I was making a political speech I would include them being handsome. Not saying there is anything WRONG with it. Probably because I would have a stage to prove BLACK MEN are not the crap they claim they are. I would focus on all their positive attributes. But that is just me.
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I've NEVER had a problem with telling BOTH my 19 & 20 (boy & girl) year old how beautiful/handsome, intelligent, and awesome they are since they were little. It became second nature to me to do that. And to this day, I STILL do it, so the author is definitely on some stuff that I cannot relate to.
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Originally posted by ShadyLady ShadyLady wrote:

A father can't call his children beautiful?!

People need hobbies these days.
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My father, grandfather, uncles, aunts, and mother all call me beautiful. I don't even take it in a "darn I'm fine" kind of way. Wasn't Christina Auguliera's song Beauty like the feminist and gay anthem at one boy and time? People are going to hurt themselves reachingSleepy
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^^Lol!!

Was I wrong to assume she is white? (A lot of times) BW know what it means to have your father say you are beautiful and how that can make or break young ladies.
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I didn't bother to research the writer of this article. So i'm going to assume she is ugly as all hell. Usually those that aren't aesthetically pleasing to the eye, always have something negative to say about "beauty". Have a damn seat.
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Originally posted by beebeexx beebeexx wrote:

Originally posted by Sang Froid Sang Froid wrote:


Originally posted by beebeexx beebeexx wrote:

I see her point but I think she's taking too stringent a view of "beautiful".
cause it's definitely true he wouldn't be up there congratulating his sons on being handsome.


A mother would. 



while I find it hard to believe a mother, president of a country, a company, or what have you would be going on about her sons intellect and strength of character and mixing handsome up in there. they just don't equate.
but for some reason, for women it does.

butttt that aside the article is looking at a patriarchal view (society >> women/ man >> father) so what a woman would do in terms of her son is irrelevant.



u find it hard to believe cause u on that fake feminism bs


Right... 

I find it hard to believe that any LOVING mother witnessing their sons transition of growth and maturity, would not find their growing sons to be handsome young men. 

Even Grandmothers ,aunts ect can experience this

and lets not even get into patriarchy .... which is such a linear point of view ...
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