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Originally posted by sbrownie84 sbrownie84 wrote:

does this also work for relationships with men too?


Doubt it LOL!
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For the record. The other side of this argument is this theory is first world privileged. Has anyone willed positive outcomes within the deep terrain of mother earth?

That's the part I'm still trying to come to terms with. 
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You know...when I was 18 I was pretty determined to experiment with this theory.

I read a ton of books, articles, etc etc

Then decided to let my light bill be my test subjectLOL

It was due by the end of the month. I started this "test" towards the beginning.

I went in it head first.

Throughout the day I would periodically chant and focus on thankfulness on paying the bill. 

The bill was 93 bucks. ( approximately....I may be off a couple dollars thanks to my memory)

The days started getting longer the closer the time drew near to settle my debt. 

But I was focused maaaaaaan. Kept on chanting whenever a negative thought attempted to pop in my mind.

Literally, the day my light bill was due I received a check in the mail for the exact amount. I bullsh*t you not. If I'm lying I'm flying!!!!

To this day I'm still amazed by that experience.

Naturally, due to age and life, I've grown a bit...cynical? So I tend to lean on that ole familiar spirit of worry. Something about that elusive innocent faith I had as a "child"....I had no worries when I did it because...well....I had no horrible outcomes to draw a scary mental parallel.

Sigh. I'm trying to nail down that adult version of living /feeling carefree. So sadCryLOL


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does this also work for relationships with men too?
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thanking everyone for their feedback. a work in progress it is
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this thread is what I needed. when I put my mind to it, I know I can attract things into my life. i'm going to try a couple of things....i'm going to try to attract a new first. idk what kind, but I'm positive that's one of my next steps in life. now that I think about it, I attracted my current job. i meditated on it, and made a vision board and envisioned myself doing it....I just think it has run its course.
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Originally posted by StylingArabella StylingArabella wrote:

I truly believe this to be true. It is one thing to try to convince yourself that a positive out come will happen and a completely different thing to truly feel deep in your bones that you can/will achieve something.

There are just times when something clicks and I am positive that I will get what I want in life, no two ways about it. Then there are times that I have this phony dialogue of "Just think positive, it could happen...I feel like it will happen if it's for me (worse thing in the world to say IMO)". Those are the times I come up dry and end up having to fall back on that ol' sad defeated  "It just wasn't meant to be, something bad could have happened if I would have received it Ermm"...oh please. So for instance, those who wanted to get out of debt, find a better job, restore their marriage, get a scholarship weren't meant to have those things? What the hell does that even mean lol!

When I am in a REAL state of positive mind my thought process tends to be "I better prepare my life for this huge change that's coming forth, I am so excited, what is the first thing I have to have set in place when this _____ happens? I better figure that out so I can be prepared". Something "supernatural" happens, it's like everything starts lining up perfect and then suddenly I have what I wanted. I'm not talking about small things either. For instance I used to drive past our townhouse for 3 months and I wanted it cause it had a wrap around porch and an excellent school district. I used to tell the family that we would live there soon. It was not for sale either. I started picturing how I would decorate the porch, my husband bar be queing in the big back yard while the kids hung out, my picking out white furniture for my master bathroom. All this while I didn't even see the inside of the place. Low in behold the place went on sale and not only was it a steal, but we had no challenges in getting it! There is something to the laws of attraction ya'll. 
 
 
Speak what is NOT as if it IS.  People need to realize the importance of positive self talk.  Positive communication to others and Positive acts of Kindness.  You can speak things into existence GOOD or BAD.
 
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Originally posted by sbrownie84 sbrownie84 wrote:

well when i think of a postive outcome of a situation. something negative happens always

 
 
When there is a negative your response to the situation is still find the positive.  If you think of negative as a defeat then the positive thinking mantra will not help you in life.
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I truly believe this to be true. It is one thing to try to convince yourself that a positive out come will happen and a completely different thing to truly feel deep in your bones that you can/will achieve something.

There are just times when something clicks and I am positive that I will get what I want in life, no two ways about it. Then there are times that I have this phony dialogue of "Just think positive, it could happen...I feel like it will happen if it's for me (worse thing in the world to say IMO)". Those are the times I come up dry and end up having to fall back on that ol' sad defeated  "It just wasn't meant to be, something bad could have happened if I would have received it Ermm"...oh please. So for instance, those who wanted to get out of debt, find a better job, restore their marriage, get a scholarship weren't meant to have those things? What the hell does that even mean lol!

When I am in a REAL state of positive mind my thought process tends to be "I better prepare my life for this huge change that's coming forth, I am so excited, what is the first thing I have to have set in place when this _____ happens? I better figure that out so I can be prepared". Something "supernatural" happens, it's like everything starts lining up perfect and then suddenly I have what I wanted. I'm not talking about small things either. For instance I used to drive past our townhouse for 3 months and I wanted it cause it had a wrap around porch and an excellent school district. I used to tell the family that we would live there soon. It was not for sale either. I started picturing how I would decorate the porch, my husband bar be queing in the big back yard while the kids hung out, my picking out white furniture for my master bathroom. All this while I didn't even see the inside of the place. Low in behold the place went on sale and not only was it a steal, but we had no challenges in getting it! There is something to the laws of attraction ya'll. 
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