I truly believe this to be true. It is one thing to try to convince
yourself that a positive out come will happen and a completely different thing to truly feel deep in your bones that you can/will achieve something.
There are just times when something clicks and I am positive that I will get what I want in life, no two ways about it. Then there are times that I have this phony dialogue of "Just think positive, it could
happen...I feel like it will happen if it's for me
(worse thing in the world to say IMO)". Those are the times I come up dry and end up having to fall back on that ol' sad defeated "It just wasn't meant to be, something bad could have happened if I would have received it
"...oh please. So for instance, those who wanted to get out of debt, find a better job, restore their marriage, get a scholarship weren't meant to have those things? What the hell does that even mean lol!
When I am in a REAL state of positive mind my thought process tends to be "I better prepare my life for this huge change that's coming forth, I am so excited, what is the first thing I have to have set in place when this _____ happens? I better figure that out so I can be prepared". Something "supernatural" happens, it's like everything starts lining up perfect and then suddenly I have what I wanted. I'm not talking about small things either. For instance I used to drive past our townhouse for 3 months and I wanted it cause it had a wrap around porch and an excellent school district. I used to tell the family that we would live there soon. It was not for sale either. I started picturing how I would decorate the porch, my husband bar be queing in the big back yard while the kids hung out, my picking out white furniture for my master bathroom. All this while I didn't even see the inside of the place. Low in behold the place went on sale and not only was it a steal, but we had no challenges in getting it! There is something to the laws of attraction ya'll.