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Cream1970
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Topic: Lazy Men.... Posted: Nov 03 2012 at 10:27pm |
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He's taking SOME ONE on "dates", believe that.
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LadyVirgo
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Posted: Nov 01 2012 at 3:55pm |
Anah wrote:
^^^Yeah I get that vibe too TBH 
Even the laziest and shyest men will put on when they are trying to impress
Hes not trying to impress b/c he doesn't feel he needs to. He just wants some effortless cut, don't give it to him.
You shouldn't have to educate a man on how to do the BASICS, and this is only the beginning  tell him kick rocks. Kittys siggy is dead on for this topic
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Posted: Oct 10 2012 at 4:08pm |
I used to put up with this crap. Now it's a requirement to keep me entertained. I hate when men try to impress me then get comfortable and change...NOPE.  My current boo won't be coming over until he's mine or pays my rent...whichever comes first.
Edited by morenaloca - Oct 10 2012 at 4:08pm
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Kittyhammertoe
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Posted: Oct 10 2012 at 3:34pm |
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Yeah, if you were someone he was really into he would actually WANT to take you places and woo you. That's ok. Don't take it personal. Just dump his sorry azz and keep it moving. No big deal.
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Posted: Oct 10 2012 at 1:57pm |
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Men only get away with what you allow them to.
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Posted: Oct 09 2012 at 1:59pm |
Women don't realize they are the ones who set this trap...
I don't even allow men I date into my house until we are on the verge of getting exclusive...I dont go to his house either...
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Posted: Oct 09 2012 at 10:40am |
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He doesn't like you he's just banging you.. If you never go out......
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Posted: Oct 08 2012 at 11:00pm |
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This is an epidemic. Simply tell him what you want. When I'm hit with the lazy sh*t, I simply say "I'm used to doing X" or "I'd prefer to do Y" or you can just straight out be like "You aint layin up in my house, I could do that by my damn self, but you can take me Z" LOL however you choose to do it but get your point across in a cute way. Let men know that they aint gonna be sitting around your house getting sex for no reason. Make him court you and take you places and entertain you. If he cant rise to the occasion then let him be some other bitch problem. I used to put up with that lazy ish and then wondered why I was never satisfied in relationships and why I would feel taken advantage of. Ideally, he should be impressing you from jump and not even try you like that....
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Posted: Oct 08 2012 at 5:16pm |
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^^draw up his walking papers! Life is too short to be wasting minutes on people who are unmotivated and lazy!!
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Anah
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Posted: Oct 08 2012 at 3:06pm |
^^^Yeah I get that vibe too TBH 
Even the laziest and shyest men will put on when they are trying to impress
Hes not trying to impress b/c he doesn't feel he needs to. He just wants some effortless cut, don't give it to him.
You shouldn't have to educate a man on how to do the BASICS, and this is only the beginning  tell him kick rocks. Kittys siggy is dead on for this topic
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