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    Posted: Dec 30 2012 at 12:31pm
I think that you should consider going to an out of state college and living on campus. Your mom is going through an early mid life crisis b/c she is recapturing the youth that she didnt have in her 20s and you will end up taking on the 'mother' role and the arguing will not cease. Your life is an adult is just beginning and you should not have to focus on her decisions when you should be focused on setting your own path. Good luck <3
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Nov 14 2012 at 12:51pm
Gurl! Moms do that sometimes.  lol. I know mine has. but at the end of the day you have to live your life for you. If your mom wanna date the scrubs, let her. If you believe in God pray for her and do you. Make the right choices for you. Date the guy  you would be proud to bring home, who no one can say anything about cuz he has it together
 
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Oct 07 2012 at 4:40pm
Originally posted by ifeyini ifeyini wrote:



Pray for your mom. Obviously she is attracting men that she feels like she can save but she cant. She may need to reevaluate why she is dating men that have nothing to offer her.
You are exactly right we have been talking about this daily and things are getting better.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Oct 05 2012 at 8:10pm
Pray for your mom. Obviously she is attracting men that she feels like she can save but she cant. She may need to reevaluate why she is dating men that have nothing to offer her.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Sep 23 2012 at 4:04am
Originally posted by babyk94 babyk94 wrote:

Originally posted by J_Shawty J_Shawty wrote:

Honestly OP I would find a respectful way (and I honestly mean respectful lol) to tell ya moms to mind hers. Or just let her know that if she doesn't want you with a deadbeat why is she picking up deadbeats and not being a good role model for you. Some times you gotta open folks eyes. I don't agree with your mother doing her...cause she is still ya moms and gotta do the right thing not just for you but for her. I know ya moms doesnt want a man who aint $hit.
That is exactly what I did and she ended it! She told me that she was proud of me for telling her the truth and that everything I explained to her really hit home. SmileSmileSmile

Good!! I'm glad everything worked out!!!
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Sep 22 2012 at 8:12pm
Originally posted by J_Shawty J_Shawty wrote:

Honestly OP I would find a respectful way (and I honestly mean respectful lol) to tell ya moms to mind hers. Or just let her know that if she doesn't want you with a deadbeat why is she picking up deadbeats and not being a good role model for you. Some times you gotta open folks eyes. I don't agree with your mother doing her...cause she is still ya moms and gotta do the right thing not just for you but for her. I know ya moms doesnt want a man who aint $hit.
That is exactly what I did and she ended it! She told me that she was proud of me for telling her the truth and that everything I explained to her really hit home. SmileSmileSmile
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Sep 22 2012 at 8:05pm
Honestly OP I would find a respectful way (and I honestly mean respectful lol) to tell ya moms to mind hers. Or just let her know that if she doesn't want you with a deadbeat why is she picking up deadbeats and not being a good role model for you. Some times you gotta open folks eyes. I don't agree with your mother doing her...cause she is still ya moms and gotta do the right thing not just for you but for her. I know ya moms doesnt want a man who aint $hit.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Sep 19 2012 at 8:54pm
Let mama do her!
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Sep 17 2012 at 8:17pm
Originally posted by khivey khivey wrote:

Well you know what you don't want. Stay focused on school and work for now. Try to stay busy with friends and stuff so it isn't all in your face. Let her be your motivation to do better. 

Thank you that is exactly what I am going to do!
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Sep 17 2012 at 8:17pm
Originally posted by Junior Jr Junior Jr wrote:

you go to mc, babyk?

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I'll be going in the spring.
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