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    Posted: Oct 31 2018 at 6:11pm
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-I'm so sick of him going back and forth when it comes to us living together. Either you want to live with me or you don't.
-His dad said that they will be leaving in March of 2020 so it looks like I don't have much time left. *Sigh*
-Now he's talking more about leaving the area which makes me afraid.
-At one point he said, "I'm waiting for you to get your s**t together to dump your a$$. Not sure if he really meant that but I'm not going to wait around and see.
-Another time he described me as a needy roommate.
-I really wish I would have got a good job right out of college then maybe I wouldn't be in this mess.
-I wish I could take a peak into the future to see what's going to happen between us.
-He keeps saying he's going to move out but doesn't seem that serious about it because he's still here despite the fact he's been making good money for a while.
-I do admit if things end up not working out, I'd be pretty upset because I invested so much time in this man.
-Sometimes I feel like if we were in an alternate universe where I had a mom that was well off and I still lived with her then we probably wouldn't be together.
-Despite the fact that this is his mom's house he always used to say to me "it's up to me when you leave."
-IDK what tf is going to happen.
-Hopefully I either get a good job or win the lottery soon.
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Thoughts:
-We had a disagreement and he said I have worn out my welcome here.
-He also says I'm making excuses not to leave.
-I said to him, I pay just like everyone else here.
-I'm really starting to feel like we are together out of convenience.
-I also feel like we are together just for the fact I ended up living with him in his mom's house.
-He fustrates me at times.
-Money is such an issue.
-I can't believe he had the nerves to tell me I should be with my mom.
-I'm sick of this s**t.
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-He ended up NOT buying the house.
-Good for me because I get to stay at the house a little longer.
-He is going on vacation tomorrow and honestly I'm kind of glad. A few days apart will be nice.
-Hopefully he doesn't try to up and move to FL though. If so I will be screwed.
-I really hope things work out and we get a place together.
-In the meantime, I need to keep stacking up in case things DON'T work out.
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Thoughts:
-He just bought a house and will be moving out soon.
-Half of me is upset, the other half doesn't give a rat's behind.
-I need to do what I need to do for myself.
-He keeps telling me I have gotten too comfortable living at the house and I was only supposed to be there for a few months.
-He also keeps saying you're here because of me. I'm sick of hearing it.
-Even if he moved out and left me in his mom's house I wouldn't mind at this point.
-I really need to find a new job, or a second job.
-I'm sick of the BS.
-If I could I would pick up and move to another state.
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-Now he's saying he doesn't want to live with me and that I need to make a plan.
-After 12 years I thought we would move on together but now I see otherwise.
-Hopefully I can find a nice room to rent out.
-I really wish I could just move far away.
-If things end up not working out between us at least I got something out of this relationship.
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-Things have been going much better between us, something must be in the water.
-He is now saying that I can live with him when before he didn't want to live with me. 
-I feel like us having our own spot together will be so much different from us living under his mom's roof.

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-For the past few days he has been online looking at houses. I really feel like he is about to move out and leave me in here.
-He told me if he leaves I would have to leave too.
-I really don't know what's going to happen between us. Sometimes I really don't give two craps either.
-I'm just trying to save as much as I can in order to just go on my own.
-I really wish I were making more money. If so I wouldn't be in this situation.
-I can't wait to get a higher paying job.
-I always thought him and I would move on together but now I see otherwise.
-Gaining independence is difficult.
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-We went to the movies last night, I'm glad we are going out and doing things like how we used to.
-I'm glad we both work so we aren't up each other's behinds all day.
-Relationships are much harder when you live with the person.
-I need to keep working on myself though, I still need my own place.
-I'm not sure if we will end up living together or not. I hope so after all this time.
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Lawd this dude got me wide open... we haven’t had sex yet but I saw it for the first time last night

I can’t wait to feel it lol
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