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    Posted: Jun 05 2011 at 4:02pm
This nigerian guy told me that african men just want to use black american women for sex but they will never marry us. They'll just use us for sex and then marry their african women. Is this true?
 
Also, this same nigerian guy was supposed to take me on a date and I was going to go but then, I started thinking to myself. I thought that if this was the case then I was wasting my time messing with him cause his only intentions were to use me for sex. So, I texted him and told him this and he told me I was "Childish and needed to grow up and that he could see why my ex-boyfriend left me". I then let him know that he was actually the childish one for even saying that because it was completely uncalled for. Why am I childish because I don't want to continue with someone that basically admitted they only want sex from me and nothing else based on culture difference? One last thing, I've noticed that a lot of nigerian men are rude. What is up with that?
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I heard the same thing from a friend. She says American woman are more willing to preform certain sexual acts that African woman will not. African woman carter to their man and family better than American woman. 

This is what i heard!
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 05 2011 at 4:11pm
It sounds like he's just an idiot.

I know plenty of African men dating and married to African-AMERICAN women.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 05 2011 at 4:11pm
Originally posted by Lilacflower1988 Lilacflower1988 wrote:

This nigerian guy told me that african men just want to use black american women for sex but they will never marry us. They'll just use us for sex and then marry their african women. Is this true?
 
Also, this same nigerian guy was supposed to take me on a date and I was going to go but then, I started thinking to myself. I thought that if this was the case then I was wasting my time messing with him cause his only intentions were to use me for sex. So, I texted him and told him this and he told me I was "Childish and needed to grow up and that he could see why my ex-boyfriend left me". I then let him know that he was actually the childish one for even saying that because it was completely uncalled for. Why am I childish because I don't want to continue with someone that basically admitted they only want sex from me and nothing else based on culture difference? One last thing, I've noticed that a lot of nigerian men are rude. What is up with that?


Girl let me tell you! African men will not marry you this is true ,BUTTTTTTT they will spend lots of money on you  even for weeks at a time.The trick is to keep going out with them but dont give them the pannies just yet.Hold  off until you at least gotten a new flat screen out the deal .They love to spoil and pamper beautiful american black women.Now im not saying this is the standard but if you are mixed or liteskinned black women they will hand over their whole paycheck to you no lie BUT they still will shower a brown or darkerskinned woman with gifts and $$$ if they are busty and have booty(no offense to anyone)Now keep in mind african men DO NOT WANT skinny women so if you are skinny as a bone african men wont look your way but if you are like a size 8 - 22 then they will want you.They love taking women to eat and love opportunities to be alone they have hands like an octopus they will be all over you so play it smart get a few dollars the first date ,flat screen the next date,a free meal the next THENNNNNN you can finally give him some but remember to wrap it up use condoms because african men dont believe in using condoms .
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 05 2011 at 4:13pm
Originally posted by Addicted Addicted wrote:

I heard the same thing from a friend. She says American woman are more willing to preform certain sexual acts that African woman will not. African woman carter to their man and family better than American woman. 

This is what i heard!
But, it's pretty ignorant for them to assume ALL of us are exactly the same way (Especially if we haven't done anything to make them think this). I think this is just wrong.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 05 2011 at 4:13pm
ETA:Nigerian men wear lots of gold jewlery and cologne and are very cocky and arrogant so watch yourself and dont get your feelings involve.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 05 2011 at 4:15pm
Originally posted by Lilacflower1988 Lilacflower1988 wrote:

Originally posted by Addicted Addicted wrote:

I heard the same thing from a friend. She says American woman are more willing to preform certain sexual acts that African woman will not. African woman carter to their man and family better than American woman. 

This is what i heard!
But, it's pretty ignorant for them to assume ALL of us are exactly the same way (Especially if we haven't done anything to make them think this). I think this is just wrong.




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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 05 2011 at 4:15pm
One of my ex-boyfriends was a sweet smart as hell Nigerian guy. He was good to me, I wasnt so good to him (:young and dumb). We had alot of deep convos and he did mention differences between women here and in Nigeria . He was from a small town near Lagos and studying to be a plastic surgeon here in SC. This post made me text him actually. 
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Originally posted by shandra shandra wrote:

Originally posted by Lilacflower1988 Lilacflower1988 wrote:

This nigerian guy told me that african men just want to use black american women for sex but they will never marry us. They'll just use us for sex and then marry their african women. Is this true?
 
Also, this same nigerian guy was supposed to take me on a date and I was going to go but then, I started thinking to myself. I thought that if this was the case then I was wasting my time messing with him cause his only intentions were to use me for sex. So, I texted him and told him this and he told me I was "Childish and needed to grow up and that he could see why my ex-boyfriend left me". I then let him know that he was actually the childish one for even saying that because it was completely uncalled for. Why am I childish because I don't want to continue with someone that basically admitted they only want sex from me and nothing else based on culture difference? One last thing, I've noticed that a lot of nigerian men are rude. What is up with that?


Girl let me tell you! African men will not marry you this is true ,BUTTTTTTT they will spend lots of money on you  even for weeks at a time.The trick is to keep going out with them but dont give them the pannies just yet.Hold  off until you at least gotten a new flat screen out the deal .They love to spoil and pamper beautiful american black women.Now im not saying this is the standard but if you are mixed or liteskinned black women they will hand over their whole paycheck to you no lie BUT they still will shower a brown or darkerskinned woman with gifts and $$$ if they are busty and have booty(no offense to anyone)Now keep in mind african men DO NOT WANT skinny women so if you are skinny as a bone african men wont look your way but if you are like a size 8 - 22 then they will want you.They love taking women to eat and love opportunities to be alone they have hands like an octopus they will be all over you so play it smart get a few dollars the first date ,flat screen the next date,a free meal the next THENNNNNN you can finally give him some but remember to wrap it up use condoms because african men dont believe in using condoms .
I believe everything you're saying (Except for the light skinned part) cause I know this light skinned girl that was dating this african guy and he didn't buy her anything and left her alone and pregnant. Seriously. I feel so bad for her.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 05 2011 at 4:16pm
I mess with a Nigerian in the past. He wasn't rude or a bad guy, but I do recall telling him that most Africans only marry other Africans. Then he told me how his uncle married a white woman but most times it's true. Marrying him wasn't on my mind and I didn't know he was my boyfriend until he started introducing me as his girlfriend LOL. And I also told him how I hear American girls are only their play things. But try not to let what the stereotype say determine your relationship BUT if you are strongly feeling a certain way, just end it. 
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