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I'm agnostic this year lol. That's up from atheist.

Why is it that Muslims can have a dress code upheld, but not Christians? Is it because they walk the walk? I'm being serious. It's Christian's who walk the walk.

I do think that because you chose that religion, you should follow it to the best of ur ability. And when u don't, u should own up to it. U can be all idgaf, that's ur relationship and ur perogative. I don't think it's fair that other Christians aren't supposed to call u out on it to support u to being better. Aren't Christians supposed to support each other and preach the word? However annoying it may be to hear it, but God has to speak to u somehow. It's a difference between haters and people who r asking for respect for their God.

I'm for real, I'm not a believer, so can someone who is answer or correct me? I do think a Christian could find it offensive that a voice of God would wear something sexy.

I like this thread.
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Originally posted by blaquefoxx blaquefoxx wrote:

I had a conversation with my grandma about not eating pork and I swear she said the most disrespectful vile thing to me (not worth repeating)Ouch. And she's a Jehovah's witness at that.
At the end of the day, people just don't like being corrected or called out. Christ and his followers kept the laws and walked upright but that ain't stop a single nicca from catching feelings when being called out; even by those who were deemed as perfect/holy.

The scriptures says that "open rebuke is better than secret love." The scriptures also say that "he that justifieth the wicked and he that condemns the just, even them both are an abomination to the Most High".

Lol I was debating with my Gma about pork on thanksgiving...
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Im not gonna lie. Im actually surprised at alot of the responses on here. I didn't think that BHM would find a problem with her outfit to be quite honest. I thought more people would come for the pastor. Just when I thought I knew yall.....


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After see a couple pictures of the preacher, all I can say is tacky!! Tacky, tacky, tacky.
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Creole I think because Muslims are pretty much cut and dry about their attire......excluding the full coverings
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (1) Thanks(1)   Quote danieb23 Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Dec 14 2013 at 7:29pm
Originally posted by Oladunni Oladunni wrote:

Originally posted by danieb23 danieb23 wrote:

Originally posted by Oladunni Oladunni wrote:

Originally posted by danieb23 danieb23 wrote:


Exactly. Because that is written directly in the bible. Your opinion on whether her dress is appropriate or not comes directly from your own perceptions of what is acceptable/not acceptable in the Lords house.

There is a difference.


The bible says modest apparel.. that is not modest...


I mean, we can break out the KJV and start quoting exactly what it says and see what all applies to not only madam in OP, but you and me.

The bible says a lot of things about how a woman presents themselves.

I honestly want to know how much of it you abide by, no shade. I actually like having this debate with you.

Trust and believe I am not saint..
But I do follow the word of God..
Im still on a journey.. I debate with what things to follow .. sum ish is confusing/debatable.. and that's okay..
Do i wear tight ish.. Yes mam and i would lying as if i don't feel sexual/sexy in certain outfits.
However i am not one that just hopped off some d...
I aint stealing , killing ....
I follow what i understand and what i don't understand I ask for the spirit of discernment so God can personally show me what's right and wrong for me ..
I do fall though.. and i admit it ask for deliverance and give all to GodSmile


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Originally posted by creole booty creole booty wrote:

I'm agnostic this year lol. That's up from atheist.

Why is it that Muslims can have a dress code upheld, but not Christians? Is it because they walk the walk? I'm being serious. It's Christian's who walk the walk.

I do think that because you chose that religion, you should follow it to the best of ur ability. And when u don't, u should own up to it. U can be all idgaf, that's ur relationship and ur perogative. I don't think it's fair that other Christians aren't supposed to call u out on it to support u to being better. Aren't Christians supposed to support each other and preach the word? However annoying it may be to hear it, but God has to speak to u somehow. It's a difference between haters and people who r asking for respect for their God.

I'm for real, I'm not a believer, so can someone who is answer or correct me? I do think a Christian could find it offensive that a voice of God would wear something sexy.

I like this thread.

I'm not sure if this will answer your question but....
I think the problem is that in Christianity there are so many denominations/interpretations , all christians don't even follow the same teachings. some follow the old. some follow the new some follow the both.
I'm not too familiar with Islam but it seems that muslim teaching aren't so debatable....
but yes Christians are supposed to support each other aswell as preach the word of God.
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Originally posted by oh_so_moody oh_so_moody wrote:

Church isn't the place to show off what you are working with....

That's the point.


there is this woman at my church and we grew up together and for a while she would attend church with her cleavage showing..(major cleavage) until a deaconess(another friend we grew up with) had to pull her aside and correct her...and now all Deaconesses have to have hankerchiefs on their laps when sitting in the front for communion..
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote patternsandtexture Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Dec 14 2013 at 8:10pm
This is how I envisioned some of these posters saying she was doing too much

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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote afrokock Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Dec 14 2013 at 8:14pm
Lol I just can't get over the double standard ..

Sooner or later y'all always prove me right

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