Too Close For Great Sex?

PurpleHaze wrote: creole booty wrote: Hmmmm I say it definitely depends. It's not totally untrue though. Just not true for everyone. I wish I could say y I say this, but bhm will judge me. I will say that lots of guys call their wives their best friend. Yep. tell us. change the names I do want to hear another perspective.

Well, there's a wealthy white man who loves black women and brags about how much he loves his wife. Loves her. Buys her anything. That's only one story, I've got plenty. Men don't cheat because there's something wrong with their wives though. They cheat because they just want to. Sex, some men can't do the things they do with other women to their beautiful, special, smart, best friend wife. They just don't want to. Everyone's story isn't like that though. Some people are best friends, stay married forever, and have wonderful sex. In my experience, and in my friends and female family members experiences, I, creole booty, can say, of the married men I've met and they've met, at some point it becomes clear that I can have them, at least for a night. Very rarely, maybe, 1 time was there a guy I wanted who was married that didn't holler. Actually no, after his wife wasnt who she was to me, he hollered. Men cheat. Women know. They just work it out. I don't judge.

Oh and amazing sex an be had with people ur not that close too. Sometimes, depending on what ur into, it's the best.

Edited by creole booty - Mar 22 2013 at 10:15pm

... Interesting. I'll hold onto my views. I could easily speak from both sides.

on the other side is my other bro & his wife that has been married going on 40 yrs and they still  have that hot thing going for each other and only each other (according to what I hear from both of them lol). I hope that's how we are.

There is definitely truth to the article...but there is always the exception to the rule in both directions. 

What the article is really tryna say is, if you always together w/ someone like  inseparable them you'll get bored with them sexually. You need to give each other time to miss each other which im assuming that'll build passionate sex... like a man who have been in prison and finally see a woman he just wanna screw the heck outta her y'know? I've witness this before, my friend and her bf her BFF's, eventually she got tired of having sex with him, cuz they were alwaaaaaaaaaaaays together. I personally cant be joined at the hip with someone 24-7... at least I think... I need to miss someone so I could be re-stimulated when I see them. You know how when ur away from ur S/O and u fantasize about them and then when u finally get intimate with them its exciting because u get to act it out?