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    Posted: May 17 2011 at 10:37am
Ok what I'm bout to ask might seem kinda stupid or silly but I really would like to know due to me not having guys chase after left and right and due to the fact that I'm tryna do sumthin this year to help me feel better bout myself. How do u become a bad bitch?
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 17 2011 at 2:04pm
Just do YOU! Point blank period....
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 17 2011 at 2:08pm
I was born a bad beetch 
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: May 17 2011 at 5:06pm
Aww ok. Sounds simple. I think can do that lol.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 06 2011 at 5:38pm
Me personally I do not know how to be a BAD BITCH,
but i can tell you how to get ideas of trying to be one
read some of those Urban Fiction books. those
girls have some tricks up their sleeves.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jul 18 2011 at 7:39am
take care of yourself. Dress up, keep your hair and nails done, and be confident.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jul 20 2011 at 4:52am
Get your body together

Take care of your hair make it look cute

Dress nicely

Be confident
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jul 20 2011 at 5:21am
Looking on point is a start, but it is not the most important thing. That means hair, nails, makeup, figure on point. Dressing well to suit you and your personality.

Being confident is easy to say. To exert it, it means carrying yourself with your head help up, having a strong walk, being able to look people in the eye, talking clearly and with conviction, not being fidgety. Basically, anything that shows you are a capable person who needs no approval.

You don't actually have to be a bitch. I know a lot of girls who equate confidence with actually being bitchy. That's not cool because if you transfer negativity the other person will carry it onto the next girl he meets. Not cool. You can be hella nice, but not a walkover. That means smiling, being approachable but if someone tries to mess you up, dissassociate with them and cut them off. Don't let anyone pollute your air.

Don't care about being with a guy too much. The more you focus on needing a guy, the more guys run away. Trust me on this one. Having a lot of self love draws guys to you. Just make 'em work a little hard to have you on their arm. Flirt and play but don't give 'em all the goods. Make them hungry.

That's about all I got. I think the most important thing is self love (i don't mean the self-absorbed kind, but really placing value in yourself). You're only valued as highly as others as you value yourself.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jul 22 2011 at 2:46pm
You can start by not wishing to categorize yourself using a derogatory term.  It isn't becoming to a real lady, I don't care how many "men" you have talking to you, how well you dress, or what kind of curves you have.  Respect for yourself and others is what makes a real woman.
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Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jul 23 2011 at 9:12am
Originally posted by mangachan mangachan wrote:

You can start by not wishing to categorize yourself using a derogatory term.  It isn't becoming to a real lady, I don't care how many "men" you have talking to you, how well you dress, or what kind of curves you have.  Respect for yourself and others is what makes a real woman.


a guy called me a bad bitch the other day and i almost went upside his head. i dont really like this term i tell them all that im a lady and expect to be treated that way.Wink
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