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    Posted: May 30 2014 at 2:01pm
OH man,in theory I LOVE my mother she has been a great one but we seem to bicker a lot She is visiting me for a few weeks and its like fireworks! I am not sure what to do I am kinda stressed!
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Im at the age where I can decide when I wanna be bothered.....she pisses me off....I just military silence her ass....then she takes me shopping and we are good....it works for us....


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I love my mum but we do butt heads sometimes smh

...so basically I got nothing

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make sure I have her cup of tea ready before she asks for it.
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I wish I had some insight.  I haven't talked to my mama in about 4 years and she lives in town.  She wears me out emotionally
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Being at odds with Mothers is normal.

We need to exert ourselves as adults who are capable of making decisions.

They however, still see us as kids that need their guidance.

I have to keep reminding mines that I see her 1-2 X/year, and I do just find.    Why does she think whenever she is around I somehow become incapable

I stand my ground trying not to lose it.

There sometimes come a time when I go there, if pushed to my limit.

She controls her home. I control mine
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my grandmother and I had some psychological warfare going on, partly because of role reversal and her situation

Sometimes we just have to deal with relationships as they are and accept the limits, instead of focusing on how they "should" be or how we expect them to be

Easy to say, hard to do
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I mean for long standing relationships that you can't replace like parents, siblings

The habits/patterns have been there for decades and all sides need to change in tandem... not always easy to do or even possible 

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I live far away from my parents they are always so loving and supportive over the phone but now they are here for a few weeks its just a lot, I feel like they are like OLD CHILDREN... sometimes like demanding and never satisfied, I try and then for 5 moments they seem happy until the next mini tantrum! maybe its me too, I just want to be better! you know?
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Me and my mom are backwards. We did not get along well until I was in my late 20's. Now thats my bew for life. 
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