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Originally posted by petiteone29 petiteone29 wrote:

Me and my mom are backwards. We did not get along well until I was in my late 20's. Now thats my bew for life. 


I thought this was normal
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Originally posted by petiteone29 petiteone29 wrote:

Me and my mom are backwards. We did not get along well until I was in my late 20's. Now thats my bew for life. 


I thought this was normal


I thought that most women where close to their mom as a little girl. Then once they hit late teens and up they start butting heads. Maybe we are normal then. 
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Originally posted by petiteone29 petiteone29 wrote:

 


I thought that most women where close to their mom as a little girl. Then once they hit late teens and up they start butting heads. Maybe we are normal then. 


speak for yourself, I know I'm not LOL

but we do have that in common.
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it must come and go though lol. I think you are right about being close as a child, then in teen years there's a separation. Then @25 you are close again.
I hear people say 'I wasn't close to my mom til I moved out' So I thought it was normal for that closeness to happen after adulthood.


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LOL yeah I think my mother couldn't stand me as a child. I have always been fiesty and bold and she is mild mannered and quiet. She recently told me that she admired how strong I am though. I never thought that we would be close. But it is an answered prayer. So I'm happy.
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me and mom were close then, but we're closer now. We've never had any arguments or anything like that. But we can have different types of discussions now. Also, she's mellowed a LOT.

Just recently I asked her if she wanted me to take her to church while I was there visiting, and she said no she'd rather stay home and spend the time with me. She said she didn't mind missing church some sundays.. Said 'you don't have to go every Sunday.' And I said: 'I sure wish  you'd felt that way when I was a growing up.' We laughed.


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Just recently I asked her if she wanted me to take her to church while I was there visiting, and she said no she'd rather stay home and spend the time with me


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yeah it was because she knew I would be dropping her off & and coming back to pick her up lol. Not like I'd be going w/ her.

j/k--it was sweet. I love that woman.


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Me and my mon argue when we are face to face but it's just the way it is. I love that lady we talk everyday and she never minds her own business but she is who her is lol.
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My parents never saw me as a adult lol . Nature treasure your mom and place some ear plugs when she comes for you . My mom knew no matter what i would respect her and dad ,but at the same time i was going to go out and party for 2 days of my visit  . I should have listen to my parents advice on many issues . I left home before the age of 18 and never came back .
 
I regret missing out on so much time with my parents due to my lifestyle at the time and location thousands of miles away all of my life . Let her be mom while you have her . I use to take a walk or go in the basement when my parents got on my nerves lol . Imagine your father listening to to your phone converstions at the age of 40 without your knowledge .Cry


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