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Creole, has he tried/open to hypnosis? A friend said that worked for her but it did have a drawback LOL. She couldn't smoke anything.
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Nope he hasn't tried anything. Randomly throughout the year he claims he's going to quit. He's only made it a whole day a handful of times. Then, he buys 2 cigarettes from someone. Then the next day or couple hours later, he buys a pack. Then it starts all over again.

My mom smoked all my life. She quit in 2 months about 1.5 year ago. She used the pill and patch, then she felt like she didn't need anything. She even went through a really bad event 1 month after quitting and didn't turn back to cigarettes. So I know it's possible. My mom got help through her doctor. That's y he agreed to the appt.
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When we first got together he never smoked around me. It came slowly into the picture. After a drink, then after sex, then after eating, then after this and just all the time. Gradually, then BAM I smoke non stop. I'm so annoyed and I didn't realize how much until he asked me to buy some. Wow, this may be something
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I just told him that I'm going to karate chop him in his throat if he smokes anymore cigarettes tonight. He said ok. We'll c. That was unusually easy.
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It is the worst addiction ever.  I quit 5/4/11 and I still crave every. single. day Cry  In traffic I'm drooling out the window at smokers next to me.... it's horrible and it is straight up addiction.  Period.  As a cardiac nurse I know full well the effects of cigarette smoking but that doesn't stop you from wanting it.  

What's his sign?  I'm a bull and we are stubborn as hell.  If he's anything like me quitting will be on his terms period.  Does he have any big dates coming up?  I quit before the night before I turned 30.  Didn't want to bring a 17-year habit into another decade.  Pick a date with him.  He will naturally taper down as the date approaches.  Good luck and damn.  I want a cigarette right now.  You beat it one craving at a time......
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Originally posted by PurplePhase PurplePhase wrote:

would yall leave your spouse if s/he started smoking?

I dumped a guy after I found out. I suspected that he did but he denied it and blamed the smell on his brother and cousin. He had to go. 
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dramatic?!

Listening to him whisper sweet nothings in my ear from a stoma is dramatic!

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Originally posted by ThatGurlD ThatGurlD wrote:

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It is the worst addiction ever.  I quit 5/4/11 and I still crave every. single. day Cry  In traffic I'm drooling out the window at smokers next to me.... it's horrible and it is straight up addiction.  Period.  As a cardiac nurse I know full well the effects of cigarette smoking but that doesn't stop you from wanting it.  

What's his sign?  I'm a bull and we are stubborn as hell.  If he's anything like me quitting will be on his terms period.  Does he have any big dates coming up?  I quit before the night before I turned 30.  Didn't want to bring a 17-year habit into another decade.  Pick a date with him.  He will naturally taper down as the date approaches.  Good luck and damn.  I want a cigarette right now.  You beat it one craving at a time......


Congratulations!

Nope, no important dates. He tried to quit before the baby was born and nope! He's an Aries (I'm a capricorn, which is a whole different set of problems) and I he is a true Aries male. I think he has an Aquarius rising too.

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Originally posted by smaison smaison wrote:

I don't date people who smoke.
Major deal breaker for me.
I will never kiss or phuck you cuz I ain't getting close to you.
That shyt is disgusting and gives me a headache.



This.


I'll never forget the guy who lied about it. Its something I always ask in the beginning and he said he does not smoke. Every time I went to see him he would disappear out to his balcony for 20 damn minutes. EVERY TIME. I finally decided to spy on him and he's out there lighting up a damn cigg. I was livid. He gave me the speech about me not being his mother or his doctor and to accept him as he is.


Yea I dumped him, the relationship sucked anyway.
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