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    Posted: Feb 11 2014 at 7:38am
So I'm still hurt from what this nucca said to me.  We have been together for 4 yrs and were on the subject of babies and he expressed how badly he wants another one. Mind you he already has 4 children from a previous relationship. I told him I have no problem with that but I want to be married first since I don't want any kids out of "wedlock".  He agreed.  OK so why this dumb MF tell me how serious he wants another child and do make him go outside the relationship??  I'm like WTF....did you just say??OuchCensoredCry.   So I ask the question.... WHAT WOULD YOU DO??
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hey Nu
honestly.. i say poof before its quoted.. and PM or talk to someone in your life.. bhm will talk about how youre already losing being with a man with 4 kids.. they're gonna turn this into all jokes and make you feel extra stupid.. 


@ what he said.. 



you know what to do…….. that was beyond disrespectful.. and beyond a sign.. 


Edited by coconess - Feb 11 2014 at 8:02am
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I would LEAVE HIM!. He is gonna cheat on you regardless it sounds like. Any man who thinks that's a reasonable solution to your conversation aint sh*t. 

Is he taking care of the 4 he already has. and i mean him not you helping him either?
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that is unacceptable behavior op...i know you love him and all, but its time for you to move on and find someone that will marry you and that you can build a family with

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Leave him. Who's to say if you get married he wouldn't want another child after you've already had one with him? He's showing you his true colors, believe it.
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Might be time to do a self-inventory and leave.

He doesn't sound like a catch and the fact that you are debating what you should do is telling

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Originally posted by coconess coconess wrote:

hey Nu
honestly.. i say poof before its quoted.. and PM or talk to someone in your life.. bhm will talk about how youre already losing being with a man with 4 kids.. they're gonna turn this into all jokes and make you feel extra stupid.. 


@ what he said.. 



you know what to do…….. that was beyond disrespectful.. and beyond a sign.. 
 
LMAO....this giff made me laugh.  But you're right.  I already know what to do and I already have a plan!!  Just needed to get it off my chest and out my system.  The nerve!!
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does he take care of his kids? why does he need 5 + kids?! Who needs 5 kids like really

 
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Tell that nicca to swerve
do what you feel you gotta do
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you know what to do.  and im pretty certain that was code word for "i'm not going to marry you"
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