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newdiva1
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Posted: Feb 21 2014 at 12:03am |
Blac1Chyna wrote:
I didn't like that. Why is it ok for men to have a 20 list of requirements that they expect in a woman they wife, but a woman can't even want a well off lifestyle for her and her offspring? I've never heard a man say he wanted to marry an ugly woman.
| I see what you're saying and can even agree but I mean....if u ain't got nuffin to offer but looks? If I were going to ask a question like that I would have included what I bring to the table along with my beauty. Be it schooling, my own career and other sh*t that I do. For a man of high stature ...pretty women are a dime a 12pack. U want that lifestyle but ain't got nothing to trade off. That might work with black athletes but not for Corporate.*shrugs* From what I've seen to bag (by bag I mean marry) you need to have something to go along with those looks...that u know how to handle yourself around high powered people and social situations. Being a corporate wife ain't champagne, Louboutins and spas all the time. Not tryna come for u but this is just what i've seen.
Edited by newdiva1 - Feb 21 2014 at 12:04am
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PurplePhase
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Posted: Feb 21 2014 at 12:10am |
lol, corporate men do marry 'bimbos' sometime . not saying anyone here is a bimbo, but they don't all have smart wives 
Edited by PurplePhase - Feb 21 2014 at 12:11am
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newdiva1
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Posted: Feb 21 2014 at 12:14am |
lol. I know but from what i've seen the majority...imo...don't. at least not for the first wife.
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PurplePhase
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Posted: Feb 21 2014 at 12:15am |
^^exactly lol.
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Blac1Chyna
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Posted: Feb 21 2014 at 12:23am |
I just assumed she led with her looks because that seems to be one of the most important things to men. You never hear men say "I want a woman with 3 degrees", "I want a woman who has at least her bachelors" "I want a woman who speaks 3 languages", it's always something to do with her beauty. Her piece was decently written, so I wouldn't think she was a dummy. Probably just a regular average woman with really good looks. But I wouldnt expect most corporate men to wife a GED holder straight out the strip club lol
Do you think men like this are more likely to marry an average looking highly accomplished/intelligent woman who runs in the *right circles* than they are a gorgeous woman who is average everyday, mildly educated (higher than 4 year but more than HS diploma), who hangs out with regular folks
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iliveforbhm
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Posted: Feb 21 2014 at 2:21am |
Beauty is the most important for a fool which this society is riddled with fools. But the most important quality to a woman is her ability to think in ways you dont and who has much more to offer and as much to lose as you do.
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afrokock
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Posted: Feb 21 2014 at 2:42am |
BBpants wrote:
Blac1Chyna wrote:
I didn't like that. Why is it ok for men to have a 20 list of requirements that they expect in a woman they wife, but a woman can't even want a well off lifestyle for her and her offspring? I've never heard a man say he wanted to marry an ugly woman.
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cuz women can't have sh*t!
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it beez like that sometime
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newdiva1
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Posted: Feb 21 2014 at 2:45am |
Blac1Chyna wrote:
I just assumed she led with her looks because that seems to be one of the most important things to men. You never hear men say "I want a woman with 3 degrees", "I want a woman who has at least her bachelors" "I want a woman who speaks 3 languages", it's always something to do with her beauty. Her piece was decently written, so I wouldn't think she was a dummy. Probably just a regular average woman with really good looks. But I wouldnt expect most corporate men to wife a GED holder straight out the strip club lol
Do you think men like this are more likely to marry an average looking highly accomplished/intelligent woman who runs in the *right circles* than they are a gorgeous woman who is average everyday, mildly educated (higher than 4 year but more than HS diploma), who hangs out with regular folks
| Men are into looks..i'm not saying that they're not. I'm not mad that she led with her looks but that was all she put down as a qualifier. But then again I guess the media would have folks believing that's all you need. *shrugs* If she's the average Jane with average education etc...she would still have to have something to get the type of man that she's looking for to wife her. She could go to these rich guy establishments and perhaps pull plenty but very few IMO would take her seriously if all she's banking on is her looks. You do have some that have made it but I don't feel it's a regular time thing. From my observations the ladies that ain't "smart" usually have bloodline (and their own money) to back them...usually...so it's a business deal to marry this girl and perhaps get added to somebody's ledger in return. *shrugs* What man in his right mind would wife Paris Hilton...but somebody eventually will. She dumb but got her family name. Not to be writing paragraphs but just sayin'. "Do you think men like this are.... "
honestly....yes. The beautiful women are more often than not the side piece. eta: sorry. wrong "they're"
Edited by newdiva1 - Feb 21 2014 at 3:00am
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afrokock
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Posted: Feb 21 2014 at 2:47am |
Young guys marry for looks, guys who marry in their late 20s/30s marry smart and attractive women.
And older guys marry for looks
If I was over the hill I wouldn't want a woman who brought something to the table because most probably I just didn't bring the table, I brought the whole house and the backyard seasonal farm produce
At that age I don't think I'm looking for anything more than some firm titty
I'm not trying to build with wife v2.0 I'm trying to live and spend
Edited by afrokock - Feb 21 2014 at 2:50am
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newdiva1
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Posted: Feb 21 2014 at 2:59am |
Mmmhmmm....Agreed. Will there be a pre-nup?^^^
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