| newdiva1 wrote:|
i'm only on page 30 so let me ask this....any female that comes to the house and let ya'll smash as a first "date"...do ya'll really consider this female for serious? Like do ya'll really in ya'll minds say....I could marry this woman?
for the record... a "chill" date and a stranger chick coming over for smashing aren't one in the same. (for me atleast) I dont do first nighters
but if she's open to coming over... then that lets me know that she's comfortable ... sometimes toooooo comfortable... (maybe my talk and text alleviated most of her concerns or something)
The more comfortable two people are.. the easier to get to know the person.
Going over to someones crib is not the only option obviously... but it is an option .. if you feel safe enough.
Do I consider this person for marriage? It depends on the person.