This girl with 2 jobs wanted ME 2 pay for the date

I usually pay for myself so I don't feel the pressure of putting out. Even if he isn't pressuring me at all. I'm still like . I got this. Sometimes I pay for both of us. (When I have/had more moneys.). But since I'm not doing well financially I avoid dates or gettin involved with any man until I get my ish together

But. I wouldn't expect him to be mad on the off chance I asked him to cover the tab for drinks. At least make an effort to, you know? Then I can shock u when I pull my wallet out.

Even when my male coworker gets me food I pull my wallet out as a courtesy. Just to be prepared.

fairyQueen092 wrote: You don't always have to spend money on a date, you could chill and talk outside or take a walk in the park or something

child ain't no body got time for that.

Yeah I prefer formal traditional dates first.


Then after you've shown me all those things.
Because you're suppose to try to impress me first, then we can start getting comfortable.

That's after not before.
People spend money on things/people they like.....

Edited by jonesable - Dec 12 2012 at 4:53pm

fairyQueen092 wrote: You don't always have to spend money on a date, you could chill and talk outside or take a walk in the park or something

I agree. I'm a person who enjoys good conversation, so if you are a smart and interesting dude, you can take me anywhere and ill enjoy myself. But if your not so good wit words and sound like wakaflaka, it would be wiser to take me out to eat at somewhere fancy, so that I can warm up to you.

wuts-rly-good wrote: Im_oh_so_hott wrote: wuts-rly-good wrote: i have a question for you ladies.if a guy told you to come to his crib for the first date because he was going to cook for you,would you go or would you insist on him taking you out and spending $$$? I'd insist on us going out, no where fancy, it not being an actual date and I'd pay for myself. o word you gonna pay for yourself? whats good wanna go out?