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ThoughtCouture 
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 Posted: Dec 31 2012 at 9:20pm |
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Midwest_Da_Gawd wrote:
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It's interesting to see how many women tie their worth to how much money a man will spend on a date..
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LMFAO I been saying this for the longest.
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It's the politically correct way of prostituting yourself. Women are selling themselves to the highest bidder then wondering why their relationships and marriages are in ruin. *kanye shrug*
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i don't think that is why relationships and marriages are in ruin.
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Posted: Dec 31 2012 at 9:22pm |
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cool to see who accepts them little to no effort dates on here |
But she's a real woman 
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Posted: Dec 31 2012 at 9:26pm |
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since the numero uno reason for divorce is financial instability..
maybe more ppl men and women alike should take a serious look at the wallets of who they are dedicating their life to.
love obviously isn't enough.
but rather that taking a good honest look a you and your partners financial situation....
ppl become blinded by luv-- like that alone pays the bills..... and they set their self up for ruin.
think ladies n gents.
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Posted: Dec 31 2012 at 9:27pm |
ThoughtCouture wrote:
leftywefty wrote:
Midwest_Da_Gawd wrote:
leftywefty wrote:
It's interesting to see how many women tie their worth to how much money a man will spend on a date..
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LMFAO I been saying this for the longest.
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It's the politically correct way of prostituting yourself. Women are selling themselves to the highest bidder then wondering why their relationships and marriages are in ruin. *kanye shrug*
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i don't think that is why relationships and marriages are in ruin. |
If a dude can't make it past a first date because he can't or won't spend $100 on a date then clearly a woman is basing her decision on his wealth or spending habits and not his character. I don't know how to make it any clearer than that. Yes, a woman shouldn't be cool with a dude outright disrespecting her by taking her to the dollar menu, but some women on here are so entitled, so hypocritical that its ridiculous. They want to be new age and feminist, yet want to play the traditional gender roles when it comes to dating. If you want to be independent, then go dutch on the bill. If you want dudes to treat you well based on reasons other than the superficial, then you need to reciprocate that back to him.
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Posted: Dec 31 2012 at 9:30pm |
nycdiva357 wrote:
since the numero uno reason for divorce is financial instability..
maybe more ppl men and women alike should take a serious look at the wallets of who they are dedicating their life to.
love obviously isn't enough.
but rather that taking a good honest look a you and your partners financial situation....
ppl become blinded by luv-- like that alone pays the bills..... and they set their self up for ruin.
think ladies n gents.
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couldn't agree more. we also need to observe spending habits. One of the things I admire most about both my father and my SO is that they are great with saving money.
Edited by leftywefty - Dec 31 2012 at 9:31pm
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Posted: Dec 31 2012 at 9:39pm |
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BoutThatLife wrote:
Ugh and y'all ask why i'm pro sugar daddy. |
I'm pro sugar daddy. Older men generally have more refined tastes if they are particularly successful. They've traveled a bit and have had exposure outside of their little pea brain of a box.
But they tend to over compensate for their flaccidity.
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geeezus what do you mean. like try and do the most with a soft one? how? lol anyway, if i were to have a suga daddy, i'd prefer he was not able to and not on viagra...lol |
Meaning they spend more and try to impress with money when they have a little peepee. Men do all kinds of stupid things because they have little or flaccid peepees.
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Posted: Dec 31 2012 at 10:05pm |
ThoughtCouture wrote:
leftywefty wrote:
Midwest_Da_Gawd wrote:
leftywefty wrote:
It's interesting to see how many women tie their worth to how much money a man will spend on a date..
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LMFAO I been saying this for the longest.
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It's the politically correct way of prostituting yourself. Women are selling themselves to the highest bidder then wondering why their relationships and marriages are in ruin. *kanye shrug*
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i don't think that is why relationships and marriages are in ruin. |
lol considering marriages were historically based on financials
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Posted: Dec 31 2012 at 10:36pm |
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Posted: Dec 31 2012 at 10:44pm |
BTW, I disagree with this prostituting business. I believe a man will do as much or as little required to get a woman's company. I think good men want to work for it and lazy men do not. In a lot of ways I think that's why they choose different for who they sleep with and who they marry (or whether they want to marry at all). Good men have no problem working most of their lives to give the woman of their dreams the life she deserves. If I were to sell myself to the highest bidder it would not have been my husband. Obviously, there's a lot more involved in that.
I'm down for pizza and bowling because I'm competitive and that's fun for me. But I'm also down for a date to the Jazz Alley and a overnight stay at the Weston. If he's down for one thing and not the other, then you raise an eyebrow. If he just wants to be with you, then it's not going to matter the date.
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Posted: Dec 31 2012 at 11:25pm |
leftywefty wrote:
If a dude can't make it past a first date because he can't or won't spend $100 on a date then clearly a woman is basing her decision on his wealth or spending habits and not his character. I don't know how to make it any clearer than that. Yes, a woman shouldn't be cool with a dude outright disrespecting her by taking her to the dollar menu, but some women on here are so entitled, so hypocritical that its ridiculous. They want to be new age and feminist, yet want to play the traditional gender roles when it comes to dating. If you want to be independent, then go dutch on the bill. If you want dudes to treat you well based on reasons other than the superficial, then you need to reciprocate that back to him. |
Actualllleeeeeeeee, feminism stresses the importance of a woman, rather than a man, deciding what she wants out of life. If that means she wants to be financially independent and have a partner with financial stability, then so be it.
But continue, I like where this is going
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