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It really sucks when parents date deadbeats.

But coming from the daughter of a woman who is dating an asshole deadbeat with a controller complex, the best advice I can offer is to let your mom live her life. She is gonna date who she wants. Let that man show her himself what a piece of crap he is. If she's okay with it, he's not going anywhere. If she's not, bye bye to him.

My entire family dislike my mom's boyfriend and for good reason. But we all have our lives to live and we're tired of trying to show her the light. You can't help someone who doesn't want help. Ouch
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Originally posted by Midna Midna wrote:

It really sucks when parents date deadbeats.

But coming from the daughter of a woman who is dating an asshole deadbeat with a controller complex, the best advice I can offer is to let your mom live her life. She is gonna date who she wants. Let that man show her himself what a piece of crap he is. If she's okay with it, he's not going anywhere. If she's not, bye bye to him.

My entire family dislike my mom's boyfriend and for good reason. But we all have our lives to live and we're tired of trying to show her the light. You can't help someone who doesn't want help. Ouch


Thank you, I just don't understand how she could be so stupid. I'm just trying to stay away from her as much as possible. She will never be the mom I always wanted her to be. I have to just accept her or not.
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you go to mc, babyk?

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Well you know what you don't want. Stay focused on school and work for now. Try to stay busy with friends and stuff so it isn't all in your face. Let her be your motivation to do better. 
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Originally posted by Junior Jr Junior Jr wrote:

you go to mc, babyk?

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I'll be going in the spring.
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Originally posted by khivey khivey wrote:

Well you know what you don't want. Stay focused on school and work for now. Try to stay busy with friends and stuff so it isn't all in your face. Let her be your motivation to do better. 

Thank you that is exactly what I am going to do!
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Let mama do her!
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Honestly OP I would find a respectful way (and I honestly mean respectful lol) to tell ya moms to mind hers. Or just let her know that if she doesn't want you with a deadbeat why is she picking up deadbeats and not being a good role model for you. Some times you gotta open folks eyes. I don't agree with your mother doing her...cause she is still ya moms and gotta do the right thing not just for you but for her. I know ya moms doesnt want a man who aint $hit.
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Originally posted by J_Shawty J_Shawty wrote:

Honestly OP I would find a respectful way (and I honestly mean respectful lol) to tell ya moms to mind hers. Or just let her know that if she doesn't want you with a deadbeat why is she picking up deadbeats and not being a good role model for you. Some times you gotta open folks eyes. I don't agree with your mother doing her...cause she is still ya moms and gotta do the right thing not just for you but for her. I know ya moms doesnt want a man who aint $hit.
That is exactly what I did and she ended it! She told me that she was proud of me for telling her the truth and that everything I explained to her really hit home. SmileSmileSmile
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Originally posted by babyk94 babyk94 wrote:

Originally posted by J_Shawty J_Shawty wrote:

Honestly OP I would find a respectful way (and I honestly mean respectful lol) to tell ya moms to mind hers. Or just let her know that if she doesn't want you with a deadbeat why is she picking up deadbeats and not being a good role model for you. Some times you gotta open folks eyes. I don't agree with your mother doing her...cause she is still ya moms and gotta do the right thing not just for you but for her. I know ya moms doesnt want a man who aint $hit.
That is exactly what I did and she ended it! She told me that she was proud of me for telling her the truth and that everything I explained to her really hit home. SmileSmileSmile

Good!! I'm glad everything worked out!!!
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