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Originally posted by ModelessDiva ModelessDiva wrote:

 she might not have said it but why else would she do a naked catwalk down Hollywood Blvd?

If acceptance wasn't her goal then what was her motive? she can be confident with her clothes on..


that's why i agreed that acceptance was part of her motive, but since that's the opposite of what she said, there's no point in going hard against it.  if she were at the beach i wouldn't think it was for acceptance.  either way, wanting acceptance doesn't make someone weak...wanting validation and acceptance is super human.  

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this thread was a set up

shame on you wonder

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Originally posted by ModelessDiva ModelessDiva wrote:


this thread was a set up

shame on you wonder


look, i know y'all are like piranha circling a chicken wing when the topic involves skin complexion, make up, weight, or interracial relationships BUTTTTTTTTTTT  she did this with the intent of getting social commentary.  whether someone has a positive or negative opinion, it's still a topic that's relevant.  and tbh, at least half the comments in here have been supportive...so idk why y'all acting like the hard asses are the majority.Sleepy
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see, she said didn't need validation.... not acceptance...

validation and acceptance are two totally different things...


validation= needing someone to tell you that you are beautiful in order for you to feel good about yourself...

acceptance= "I KNOW I'm beautiful, I don't need you to confirm shat, and you are gonna accept me for me."




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well I don't think she changed anything!
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and I think they should ticket her and the naked cowboy in NYC who I HATE!
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i don't agree with your definition of acceptance...approval, confirmation, acceptance are synonymous with validation.
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Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

Originally posted by ModelessDiva ModelessDiva wrote:


this thread was a set up

shame on you wonder


look, i know y'all are like piranha circling a chicken wing when the topic involves skin complexion, make up, weight, or interracial relationships BUTTTTTTTTTTT  she did this with the intent of getting social commentary.  whether someone has a positive or negative opinion, it's still a topic that's relevant.  and tbh, at least half the comments in here have been supportive...so idk why y'all acting like the hard asses are the majority.Sleepy


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Originally posted by ModelessDiva ModelessDiva wrote:

Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

i don't agree with your definition of acceptance...approval, confirmation, acceptance are synonymous with validation.

ok so what is acceptance then?

i think acceptance means to make someone feel included, like they're not part of the "other"...validation seems like basically the same thing...a co-sign, you're good, thumbs up.
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Originally posted by ms_wonderland ms_wonderland wrote:

i don't agree with your definition of acceptance...approval, confirmation, acceptance are synonymous with validation.

ok so what is acceptance then?
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