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Originally posted by OoDles O OoDles O wrote:

Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:


talk about high pressure stressful environments is just an excuse, if they were going to rape, they were going to rape regardless

yeah..I agree.. thats crazy talk right there.



So you don't think that people tend to do bad things more often when they feel they have the go-ahead and they will get away with it? Really?


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Originally posted by smaison smaison wrote:

I think ladybird was trying to say that's what people THINK when females are promoted in the military.

Yeah this lol.
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Originally posted by Limalady Limalady wrote:

Yeah, I don't think anyone in this thread understands this issue. Also TBaby, the suggestion that women falsify rape claims just serves to silence rape victims. There is no incentive to lie, and the military sure isn't paying rape victims. The system will continue as it is, with a less than 5% conviction rate in rape cases. Men in the military are given a free pass to rape women.

I think some are feeling judged for being in the military or feel like we think the military has nothing to offer women. That's not what I'm saying at all. But they obviously do have more serious issues with sexual harassment and rape, but I'm glad to know it hasn't been any of their experiences.

Plus ya know people will believe a man before they believe a woman any day smh.
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Originally posted by afrokock afrokock wrote:


talk about high pressure stressful environments is just an excuse, if they were going to rape, they were going to rape regardless


i definitely disagree with that....imo ppl will commit atrocious acts if they knew they wouldn't get in trouble....i remember reading a poll once where they asked men if they could get away with it would they rape women and a staggering 60% said yes

lemme see if i can find


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Look at all the looting that happened in Katrina. My cousin didn't leave til after the storm and she said when she got to the highway all she could see was tennis shoe boxes scattered in the street. You don't need tennis shoes to evacuate. 

The white slave owners raped the slaves because it was they knew they wouldn't have to answer to anyone. 

I think most people have dark, evil minds but the circumstances never let them rise to the forefront. If it weren't for the law this would be a completely different place.


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idk if i agree with that statement afro...what was that pysch experiment w/cruelty?
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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Milgram_experiment

This experiment is about obedience to authority but imo it proves that we will do wrong and not feel bad about it under the right conditions.
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Originally posted by EPITOME EPITOME wrote:

idk if i agree with that statement afro...what was that pysch experiment w/cruelty?

Are you thinking of the one I just posted or another one?
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Originally posted by starflower7 starflower7 wrote:

Look at all the looting that happened in Katrina. My cousin didn't leave til the middle of the storm and she said when she got to the highway all she could see was tennis shoe boxes scatted in the street. You don't need tennis shoes to evacuate. 

The white slave owners raped the slaves because it was they knew they wouldn't have to answer to anyone. 

I think most people have dark, evil minds but the circumstances never let them rise to the forefront. If it weren't for the law this would be a completely different place.

perfect example! there were a lot of rapes in that dome as well

isn't it also a well known fact that during war, women and children suffer most, with women being raped like it's nothing...

im sure not all of the soldiers had priors...well actually obviously they didnt

happened in iraq, afghanistan, vietnam....no offense but at their core men can really be vicious animals when it comes to power/sex
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i have never met anyone in the military that will tell you the whole truth and nothing but the truth about that world.
they go hard on protecting that system.
even my friend whose in the army. i have asked her multiple times about rape in the army and she has never given me a straight answer; she always beats around the bush when i bring it up.
something aint right.
always telling me that the army is great one minute and then the next telling me how much she hates it but can never just come out and tell me why she hates it.
i feel for a lot of people who sign up base on misinformation.
and i know recruiters lie too.
idk why people in here caught feelings on this topic because it didnt have to go there. people just want information. and while i appreciate some of yall sharing "some" of that information, getting offended quickly aint helping your case.
please don't act like rape and sweeping it under the rug is not a problem in the military.
and thanks for your service.


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