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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote carolina cutie Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 13 2013 at 10:35pm
In 4th grade from mom after I had already read about it in the kids section of Barnes & Noble. We keep a pretty open dialogue about sex.

Dad never mentioned sex until I was 23 and mentioned safe sex. I was thinking 'man, you late'.LOL
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I never had the talk. I learned from tv lol
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Now that I think about it, my mom never even had a talk with me about my period!Shocked

Like it just happened when I turned 13 and she told me where she kept the pads. Eventually in HS I started using tampons but it wasn't even like she told me how to use them. I just got tired of dealing with pads and finally figured out how to use one.

Geeze...DEFINITELY not being that ridiculous with my kids. SMH
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote IslandSuga Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Jun 14 2013 at 9:13am
I never got the talk, however i did get health classes/sex ed in 4th-11th grade. Once I moved to FL, there was no such thing. I took a sex ed class in college just for reinforcement.
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I won't be putting my kids on BC. Lol
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I already knew most of it before I had the official "Talk".  I was 9 yrs old when mom had the "Talk" with me.
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The talk pretty much consisted of "Keep your legs closed" and "You'd better not show up here pregnant".
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Originally posted by modelbusiness82 modelbusiness82 wrote:

Now that I think about it, my mom never even had a talk with me about my period!Shocked

Like it just happened when I turned 13 and she told me where she kept the pads. Eventually in HS I started using tampons but it wasn't even like she told me how to use them. I just got tired of dealing with pads and finally figured out how to use one.

Geeze...DEFINITELY not being that ridiculous with my kids. SMH


lol same.

when I was 12, she slid me a book from the library, and said "if you return it late and get a fine, imma whoop yo ass" and gave me a pack of pads. tampons weren't allowed b/c she said i would lose my virginity and she also didn't want me to get pleasure from them Confused 
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I had the talk from my dad around 15 when he came around. But by than I knew everything cause I was the youngest Sage and second youngest prophet ever.

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Originally posted by Jewelsnyc Jewelsnyc wrote:

How old where you when you received the talk from your parents? they never did that
 
Or did you get your sexual education in the streets/friends/school? school mostly. friends talked about sex but I really wasn't interested in talking to them about sex. I never brought it up
 
At what age do you think a parent should have "the talk" with their child?11
 
How much information do you think needs to be shared? Like should videos of std's be shown, condom demo etc? all of the above
 
 
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