| Majesty02 wrote:|
In the ratchet city I live in, this is very much true. The hoodrats always have “a man” whether he's an excon, drug dealer, or just plain shady. That’s because they’ll take anything that comes their way.
By nature based on statically reasoning, the average male is going to pursue what he feels is easiest to obtain. All the women I know that are college educated, attractive, nonghetto/stereotypical, and have self-respect etc. are single usually because they’re smart enough to not let these grimy
dudes out here take advantage of them.
I'm not really a big fan of Tyrese, but I agree with this 100%. All the women in here that don't agree are probaly the type of chics he's bashin
I agree with you 100% .. I don't know who Tyrese is though...
The (non-ghetto etc) Single girls that are not sleeping around .. are saving themselves for a decent man (non- ghetto etc) because they know their value and that they are WORTH something more. This is the part Tyrese left out that is upsetting people.
I think his POINT was ... there are a lot of hoes that have men .. but those men just want them for sex. But he said it wrong ..
The thing it is about 85% of the single men at any given time .. are UNAVAILABLE. Maybe they are not married or don't have a girlfriend .. but that does not mean they are 'available'. They may have money problems, old relationship problems, they had poor father role models so they don't KNOW what it is to have a relationship, they like to play women .. whatever but they are not going to get into a relationship with you because they are unavailable. Period.
Now 100% of the single men (not surprisingly) ARE AVAILABLE for sex! Like .. pretty much any time, any place. Duh! So they will USE you for sex .. and be on their way.
Sadly, sometimes 'nice girls' that are not hoodrats etc get used as well .. because they don't recognize a man that is UNAVAILABLE. They get carried away with the moment and the bs he tells them and sleep with him .. thinking it will go somewhere. Nope .. he will dump her too! He will use her just like he uses the Hoodrat that thinks it is normal to lay up with different men. This is another part Tyrese left out.
That's why a girl has got to hold out for that 15% of single men that actually ARE AVAILABLE for a relationship. 15% is about all there is though.. maybe that number can slide up or down .. but it's about 15% .
The trouble is ... there is an 8 to 1 ratio of AA women to AA men ... so that 15% is even SMALLER for the AA community. This means that AA women (whether they want to believe it or not) have to source men from OUTSIDE the AA community. Maybe they are Black but from other countries or other ethnic groups .. but they've gotta see the reality of the situation or:
- they will be forever dealing with the hoodrats that will dog them, juggle 10 other women at the same time and eventually knock them up and leave them. (That's the 85%). Then they will say 'all men are dogs' but they aren't ... they just choose dogs.
- they may meet a decent AA guy that is part of that 15% and it may work out fine! ... (or not because once he figures out the 'AA man shortage situation' and realizes his options .. he might cheat.)
- they will be .... alone (and maybe bitter and p*** off)
Edited by Printer_Ink - Feb 12 2014 at 2:20am