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Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


that is why the women you deal with ain't sh*t though



I'm not marriage material.

I hate feeling stuck to anything and I'm not a persevering those unless my life is on the line.
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He is over thinking this too too much.  Many of these nice guys really aren't as a great a catch as they are purported to be.  The last "nice guy" somebody set me up with was a walking train wreck **shudders**
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And they try too hard....
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Originally posted by maysay1 maysay1 wrote:

The problem isn't being "too nice". The problem is that the goal of the date is to "finish first" and "win" something, usually something sexual. (Otherwise, there was absolutely no reason to be worried about her wanting to "get away from you" and bringing up that high cortisol levels impede female lubrication.)

Men might want to try going into the date with their only goal being meeting an interesting new person and hopefully having a good meal, a few laughs, and some nice conversation.

Thats great and all… but you forgot to mention the >>Dutch<< part.
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Yeah people dont value people pleasing as much it makes them seem untrustworthy or dangerous when it could be really noble.
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Most "nice guys" are ugly so of course they have to be nice. You can't be mean and ugly



Edited by BBpants - Apr 02 2014 at 7:45pm
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Originally posted by BBpants BBpants wrote:

Most "nice guys" are ugly so of course they have to be nice. You can't be mean and ugly



Shiiiiiiid......I see mean fugly chicks everyday...
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Originally posted by mizzsandra00 mizzsandra00 wrote:

Originally posted by BBpants BBpants wrote:

Most "nice guys" are ugly so of course they have to be nice. You can't be mean and ugly



Shiiiiiiid......I see mean fugly chicks everyday...


True true lol
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Most guys that constantly call themselves 'Nice Guys' are actually self absorbed, passive aggressive creeps.

"You dont want to fuk on the first date? You dont want my hand on your lap within seconds of meeting?  Why not, I am a really nice guyBig smileBig smileBig smile?"

The guys that are genuinely nice that I know are not walking around categorizing themselves and trying to force their 'nice' image on people.
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Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


being a people pleaser isn't really a good thing
 at all
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