Your mind was made up on page 1, I can only speak for myself but my first piece of advice was honest valid advice, and somewhere along the way I lost the little phuck I had in me after page 19 or so.
People like you kill me, you want advice but you only want well dressed lies, you only want to hear 25 versions of your truth. Well guess what you been working it your way and how is that been working out for you? I am going to say not great cause not only did you come in here and ask us heathen chicks with dicks with a dash of whore but you have either been scanning Cosmo and Marie Claire in your local CVS but you have also been Googling links to back up your theory of your "man plan" that I repeat has not worked yet or the thread would have been titled Marie Claire knows their Stuff and I am getting married tomorrow.
These relationships that did not lead to marriage there is one common theme and that is you. Now maybe one guy wasn't the one but at some point we have to examine our picking, why is every man I choose not the one or even close to what I want in a husband and the society blame of no ones gets married , nope. No one on BHM was giving you bad advice when those situations didnt workout
I will let you in on a little secret, I would advise you to bring more to the table when you do get married
than your self righteous attitude, refurbished virginity and a fork.
Please pm me the time and date of this never happening bhm meet up , and I will show up with a name tag on I bedazzled I promise I will and my comments will be the same live, in person snatched, beat, lipgloss on point looking like I aint got a man problem in the world.