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Originally posted by herwoman herwoman wrote:

I go to Chimas at least once a week for happy hour and the men sit at the bar as fine as they please.

I notice single men go to the grocery store in the morning. Need eggs?

I have noticed that when I go out with my single friends I get hit on more because I leave the group more often. I get the drinks, I dance first etc they get mad but a guy ain't trying to fight your friends to get to you.

Single guys run the trails before noon.

Single guys eat out before 7pm I noticed that my sister would always say damn just missed them lol. They eat before the rush.

Guys are creatures of habit and while you've been getting ready alk day they have worked out, washed their car, got a hair cut, a pair of shoes and dinner all before 7pm.

If you find yourself saying "where the guys at?" Becky got them this morning j/k but really



Okay this is true though ShockedLOL
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Originally posted by herwoman herwoman wrote:

Yes CC the good men are out during the day you better spend the night at the Waffle House and stop at the grocery store on your way home.

Where is Afro, Bunz and Fucc? Help a sista out we gots to get these ladies married. At the very least tell them what they shouldn't do.
'No skrip clubs'.

I will keep this in mind when I start going on the hunt.LOL
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote ModelessDiva Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: Apr 06 2014 at 2:55pm
Originally posted by mangachan mangachan wrote:

Originally posted by ModelessDiva ModelessDiva wrote:

lol she said 10%

And I also heard a lot of black women out there are enhanced with those weird unnatural looking bodies.... 20 inch waist and 60 inch hips ...girl bye

No way Jose


Things needed to get a fancy Atlanta black dude...penis *looks below navel*

and/or big booty *turns around and looks at behind*

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to the animal shelter!!!

 
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Originally posted by SamoneLenior SamoneLenior wrote:


lol I don't think I did anything that was suggested in this thread

besides be myself

but I didn't have a long list of requirements either
well what did you do DR? please think about it carefully and then tell us
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i still dont get this thread

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Go to university sponsored events. Not student org events, obviously. I mean when university is sponsoring a guest speaker, etc. You'll meed higher education administrators, doctoral candidates, community leaders, as well as people who took the initiative to come learn something. Not only is it a great way to network, can also be a great way to meet people.

Also get your job to sponsor you for various conference/workshops in your region, state, etc.

These tidbits are very insightful. It's all starting to make sense now. I've met people in Whole Foods. I do have more random conversations when I have on university apparel. Hmmm.

Anyway the most consistent thing I hear from guys is not to throw it at them. Also the guys I know don't prefer the heavily made-up women with weave down their back. They like the regular, girl-next-door-grew-up type of look. These are professional men with legit jobs.

I will agree that church is typically an environment where marriage is consistently considered a goal. Finding a man at church can get tricky. Denominations can really matter to a lot of people. The ratio is still jacked up. And you also have to wade through his family/social circle in the process of getting to know him, as you'll see all of them once a week.

Beyond that, we're human so, there are a variety of convictions relating to physical intimacy. It would SEEM as if people are/should be waiting for marriage, but that's not always the case. And it can get messy quickly. If waiting is a value for you, ask questions/get clarity early.  But again different churches/denominations have different cultures regarding dating so best bet is, find a church that suits YOU and you'll likely meet men there with similar values.

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OP, is race a factor in this at all for you?
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What about the men folk on bhm like mixer or afro ? I know of 2 bhm weddings .Embarrassed
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Afrokock can get it. So canEl but I heard he got a fianceeErmm. Oodles can get whatever he wants plus my bank account info if he wanted it
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Hey, can anybody list all the BHM dudes because those 3 are the only ones I can think of right now. Also there was that Sache199? guy but he dont count
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