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Originally posted by NadiaPost NadiaPost wrote:

I dont think making a plan will score you a man. I think letting things flow naturally works best. Love happens when you least expect it.


Unfortunately this is true.
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Try going to church . Times have change . We have a singles night out once a month . You would be suprise how many young men attend church . I am not saying they are all husband material . Embarrassed

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I think if you put yourself in more social situations the person will come along. But if you just go to work, hang out with your girlfriends once or twice a month and chillax at home mostly he's not going to come knocking on your door. But if you literally look for him then you'll more than likely put yourself in a bad situation.
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Originally posted by NadiaPost NadiaPost wrote:

I dont think making a plan will score you a man. I think letting things flow naturally works best. Love happens when you least expect it.


I agree. I also think once you work on yourself whether that's physically, emotionally, job wise, etc. then he'll come.
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Originally posted by IslandSuga IslandSuga wrote:

I think if you put yourself in more social situations the person will come along. But if you just go to work, hang out with your girlfriends once or twice a month and chillax at home mostly he's not going to come knocking on your door. But if you literally look for him then you'll more than likely put yourself in a bad situation.


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You have to bring something to the table to peak a man interest . Once you find a guy that shows interest , wait to go out for a few weeks .Talk on skype or the telephone . Never hop in bed on the first date . I know some can have relations on the first date and continue ,but based on what men have told me , they jump the broom with women that make it hard to get the purse .

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Originally posted by HeyBeautiful18 HeyBeautiful18 wrote:

Originally posted by IslandSuga IslandSuga wrote:

I think if you put yourself in more social situations the person will come along. But if you just go to work, hang out with your girlfriends once or twice a month and chillax at home mostly he's not going to come knocking on your door. But if you literally look for him then you'll more than likely put yourself in a bad situation.



OuchYou just spoke my life

I enjoy chillaxing after a week of work Cry...that's why I've been single since the beginning of time.

Sad part is, the social events that men in my age group go to aint for me.
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Originally posted by Samoneisthebest Samoneisthebest wrote:

Originally posted by HeyBeautiful18 HeyBeautiful18 wrote:

Originally posted by IslandSuga IslandSuga wrote:

I think if you put yourself in more social situations the person will come along. But if you just go to work, hang out with your girlfriends once or twice a month and chillax at home mostly he's not going to come knocking on your door. But if you literally look for him then you'll more than likely put yourself in a bad situation.



OuchYou just spoke my life

I enjoy chillaxing after a week of work Cry...that's why I've been single since the beginning of time.

Sad part is, the social events that men in my age group go to aint for me.


Girl you are not alone. I've always been the single one. Only had one relationship that didn't even make it to the 3 month mark. I live in a very small town with only one friend and there aint ish to do. All the fun stuff is 1-2 hours away but I don't have anyone to hang with. Soon my situation will change and I will force myself to make new friends via meetup groups, etc. But when I wasn't looking here comes someone I know from college. Lawdamercy lol. I couldn't stand him at first, now he's aight. We juss friends though, we'll see what happens. *kanye shrug*
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