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Originally posted by Diane (35) Diane (35) wrote:

Originally posted by NJHairLuv NJHairLuv wrote:

Originally posted by herwoman herwoman wrote:

Damn lol but 10 was dating a member seriously I wonder if they are still together.

nah, that exploded. it may have exploded in that thread where he posted himself sitting with his drawers dropped on the can and got banned.

Naah that was after i think. It was classic! I remember being at ATI in Negril Jamaica, instead of being drunk and wining on ppl refreshing the ish outta that thread lololololololol (i was on the beach with drink in hand but still).



you refreshed my life with thisLOLLOLLOL totally & completely!!! I remember being at a few events with my phone on BHM clicking REFRESH LOLLOLCryLOLLOL

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Originally posted by BeatriceBean BeatriceBean wrote:

1. Enjoy being single.


2. Realize the value of your time. If a man says that he never wants to get married, but you want to be a wife, then act accordingly and put a period behind it.

 

3. Keep your eyes and ears open. The signs showing what type of person he really is are always there, we just tend to overlook them.

 

4. Don't be bitter. Live, learn and move on.

 

5. Open yourself up to love.

 
I enjoy being single but I also want to be married!I'm Open to Love but don't feel like I have met my husband yet- I have no problem attracting MEN to clarify- its just it seems like have not dated anyone on the same path as me... I don't have anymore Long BF "relationships" in me! I am thru with that- because that has not worked for me. So I was really asking women who are married what worked or is working for them?
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I really don't know what to tell you. I met my husband when I was falling over drunk in a bar. I had been through a very nasty divorce years prior and I decided that I was going to focus on being a single mom (my sister had taken my daughter on a trip to Europe at the time, lol). I wasn't planning on meeting anyone but it just happened. We were married for over 30 years when he passed.

 
As far as finding a man I can't tell you jack. I barely remember meeting the love of my life. Go by yourself to where single men are and smile. Carry a knife just in case you have to stab somebody.
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Nature wants to get "chose"LOL

did anyone mention don't give out your milk for free?Geek


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Samone, I need PG to make that thread! I need something to read tomorrow.LOL

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I like the title.

That way the thread can go however people want it to go.
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I just want to know why we need that thread when we already have an idea on how this is going to go?^
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I'll tell admin that if they ban you, i'll be at their front door with my top hat and cane to discuss the prollem and solve it.LOL
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Nature you have to work until you die to maintain a good marriage . I have a habit of complaining about simple things which drives my husband nuts . I am working on that , but i am my mother lol . You should find a sport or hobby that men attend to start . No one is perfect . You must accept no matter how good the relationship may seem , everything will never flow like water . Give yourself time to find MR .close as possible right . GL
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There is an infinite number of ways you could meet 'the one'.

Just be open to life in general. I am a firm believer in purposeful living, and I purposely found my soul mate by deciding that was what I wanted, then took all the opportunities available. I rode the wave that I consciously chose to hop on. The wave took me to multiple destinations, and I chose the one that felt organic to my soul.

It seems like a very abstract idea, and in a way it is...but life has to be abstract in order to house infinite possibilities.
But each wave takes you to the micro part of experience.

Of course, you don't have to live purposefully, and then again, you could pick and choose what you experience as a result of someone else's purposeful living, which would seem like on a whim to you from your POV but this is all just a part of the infinite possibilities.

I like to know that I had a hand in my current experiences, though. But that again is just one option of an infinite number of possibilities.



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