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Yea someone stole my virginity again

so upset
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Choke on it
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Originally posted by BBpants BBpants wrote:


You don't say the N word.....?

*squints*

I think I'll be taking your black card away now. You can't sit with us!!




Dont do me like that!! Its not for moral reasons. I have no morals.

You know what? it's fine. I dont hang with light skinned girls anyway.

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fine!! Go sit with the dark ones!!
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Lol..

Light skin messiness upinhea
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Last I checked bleaching creams are out selling tanning oil in the black community....but if some of yall really believe that most black people prefer Lupita's skin tone over Beyonce's then....I have $2 dolla' 36 inch shed free brazilian bundles to sale you. 


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Originally posted by noneyons noneyons wrote:



@mangachan, many black men consider themselves MEN first while their blackness plays second fiddle,
while the reverse is true for black women. most of us consider ourselves black first, women second. 

the subject of race usually does not factor into black men's day to day existence until they are faced with discrimination. and we are left with the duty to hold them down. that's about the extent of our brother/sister bond. 

this is way off topic and a whole nother subject though. there is a common thread in both topics but i don't want to veer off too much. 





*scratching chin*
Interesting perspective. 
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kind of off topic

I have a light skinned person in my life that says they are blacker than me because they grew up in the hood
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Noney that is an interesting perspective and I understand why you would feel that way.  I do agree on a small level that black men see themselves as men first and black second.  I'm supersad that it seems that way because there are many black men who are 100% with us.

I think we need to hold them accountable for this abandonment.   We need to put it in their fact so that they know and understand the way we perceive their failure to defend us with equal tenacity (the way we defend them). 

My theory is that their need to be in tune with the overly manly group and to appear strong is the reason they tend to fall back when they shouldn't.   I don't believe they always know it comes off as indifference.  You're not supposed to have feelings because that's girly.  But men have very strong feelings (emotions) and not a lot of counteractions that are productive and safe. 

As an example my husband refuses to get to involved in certain things and tells me to let him know when someone needs to die.  He feels like he only has one response to certain types of disrespect.  Kill.   Especially when it comes to me and the kids.  His warning is be careful what you tell me. 

Basically in a war your soldiers take their cue from the commanders.  Men only really know one way to handle certain things so they fall back.  In this case they need to get closer to the problem without killing everybodyLOL

Anyway, all that said just for those who want to discuss this with the people around them and really make a change.  Don't waste your time on the cooning niccahs and you can spot them a mile away. 
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