it is sad that there is a struggle. but its not imagined. some people don't like to be introspective about these things and live life on the shallow end, scared to face their demons, but again. it is very real.
the complex is everywhere. when people say "i don't like light skinned women/men because [insert bullsh*t reason]", or "i prefer light skinned men/women because [insert bullsh*t reason]", their complex is showing.
not sure what afro meant with the lack of empathy comment, but that resonates with me. struggle is struggle. there is no competition. but i chose my words carefully because, whether we want to admit it or not, this topic has folk in defense mode.
Edited by noneyons - Mar 26 2014 at 6:16pm